well God does not control the things that we do (i know people will disagree with this statement). I mean, would we believe that God controlled the people who hijacked the planes on 9/11 or controlled those kids who shot up Columbine and killed that girl Cassie because she was a christian. I believe that we have free will to choose but that God still works to make good out of our bad situations that we get into and the bad decisions that we make