[b]JamesRaio wrote:[/b] [quote][b]angelofheaven wrote:[/b] [quote]I\'ve known this guy since 3rd grade ( we\'re freshman now) and we\'vge \"hooked up\" several times but everytime he has let me down. Now he is saying that he\'s changed and willing to do anything to prove it. I really like him but don\'t know what to do. I just don\'t want to be hurt again. Does anyone have any advice for me?[/quote] Have a long cooling off period and observe from afar if his fruits are good.[/quote] I tend to disagree with this brother even though I understand where your going with it. Even if the fruits of this young man were holy and of the Lord, I would still tell her to \"sit out the dance\" so to speak. She needs to build up her relationship with the Lord and trust in His guidance in this. I\'m not sure how long of a \"cooling off period\" you were talking about so I threw this little advice in there. But otherwise good spiritual wisdom.