i was kinda like that when i was younger. i was SO desperate to get a bf (cuz all my friends seemed to have one) that i would \"crush\" on a bunch of my guy friends. i stopped doing this when i was about 15 and pretty much gave up on guys in general. but in the last year God blessed me with the guy of my dreams. but this was only after i \"gave up the chase\" i didn\'t want to pass up \"the one\" but i didn\'t want to chase after him. if she continues chasing after every boy that breathes, she could miss a huge opportunity that God has for her.