im going to say somthing i have only told few, my sister is gay. i beleive that you can be gay and christain. but you also need to understand that we know that it is a sin and we dont beleive that it is right. my mother says that even though my sister is gay, that doesnt mean we should shun her and disown her. i beleive that, i think that the judging is bad but being gay is also bad so really its from your point of veiw which is worse, but it is true that you can be gay and christain. God\'s arms are allways open no matter what.