My friend maria's birthday party was last night after church I wasn't able to go but Alec was and they took lots of pictures but I can't see them unless I'm tagged in it well my friend nick thought it would be funny to tag me in a picture of my friend alisa kissing alec on the cheek :( and everyone was commenting on it asking if me and alec were together and thinking it was funny that I was tagged in it well it's not funny! I'm really upset about the photo for two reasons. 1) Alec's default is oh him alisa and angel and alisa has her arms around him and he said it was the only picture like that well he lied it's not. 2) it's alisa kissing him on the cheek not me. and she's one of my best friends who knows I really like him. alec thinks I shouldn't be upset about it cause they were just messing around idk what to do about it....

I'm sorry it hurts. I know it does. Believe me, I've been in your position before too. I really don't know what to tell you. I would talk to her about it and tell her how upset you are, for starts. And then, I just wouldn't worry. They're teenagers. It's not an excuse, but a reason, rather. We all have crazy hormones and that makes us want to, er, "experiment". Sometimes, a guy/girl will think "Oh, he's cute... I wonder what it'd be like to kiss him/her..." It sounds ridiculous, but it's true. We get curious when things are new to us. But again, it's not an excuse, and it's still wrong. Don't let it get to you. It doesn't make you any less pretty (you are gorgeous, of course). It doesn't make you any less of a princess (you're a daughter of the highest King!). And it doesn't make you any less of who you are. You are still great. :) Things like this happen. But I want to remind you that in high school, you probably aren't going to find who you'll marry. It's okay to like a guy. But don't get to into it. Eventually, hearts will be broken. And I'd like to add in a quote that I really love: "There's only one guy worth crying over. And the one worth crying over won't make you cry." I'm pretty sure I butchered the actual quote, but it's something along those lines and you get my point. Feel better, hun. We're here for you. *hug*