Me and my buddies get into a new fight, Every single day. And we do not know how to solve the problem, recently we all went to camp together, and had a terrible time fighting and everything, now we dont know what to do, we all wanna be friends but its just so hard with all the crap going on, how do you all solve problems when you and your friends fight? [color=#800080]><>[/color]R[color=#800080]4[/color]y[color=#800080]-[/color]r[color=#800080]4[/color]Y[color=#800080]<><[/color] If you have any questions, uhh, either write them down or email me [color=#0000FF]rayray_luvs_jesus@yahoo.com[/color]

[b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]Me and my buddies get into a new fight, Every single day. And we do not know how to solve the problem, recently we all went to camp together, and had a terrible time fighting and everything, now we dont know what to do, we all wanna be friends but its just so hard with all the crap going on, how do you all solve problems when you and your friends fight? [color=#800080]><>[/color]R[color=#800080]4[/color]y[color=#800080]-[/color]r[color=#800080]4[/color]Y[color=#800080]<><[/color] If you have any questions, uhh, either write them down or email me [color=#0000FF]rayray_luvs_jesus@yahoo.com[/color][/quote] maybe you should step away for awhile....and pray about it.. maybe its time for some new friends?

[b]abme wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]Me and my buddies get into a new fight, Every single day. And we do not know how to solve the problem, recently we all went to camp together, and had a terrible time fighting and everything, now we dont know what to do, we all wanna be friends but its just so hard with all the crap going on, how do you all solve problems when you and your friends fight? [color=#800080]><>[/color]R[color=#800080]4[/color]y[color=#800080]-[/color]r[color=#800080]4[/color]Y[color=#800080]<><[/color] If you have any questions, uhh, either write them down or email me [color=#0000FF]rayray_luvs_jesus@yahoo.com[/color][/quote] maybe you should step away for awhile....and pray about it.. maybe its time for some new friends?[/quote] I thought about that, and i have definitly been praying, but i go to a SMALL private school, so small that these are basically the only girls in my class, so I have no one else to go too. I decided that next year I am just gonna leave, and ill put up with it this year, but it is so hard. I donno wat to do.

HERE IS SOME IDEAS 1. Try to talk to them 2. There is a game that freinds play when they fight you sit in circle and then you ask each other questions and if you agree then you scoot forward and when you disagree then you scoot backwards and if you guys are really close then you guys are good friends if you are far away you guys need to talk deffinitly it doesnt always work on every one 3. You could always take a break from hangin out for a couple weeks then after a couple weeks hangout and see if it works 4. If you guys get in like violent fights i dont hink you are really true friends and you should probably make new friends 5. You could always get new friends but it might make you sad but you never no

Yeah, I am tottaly sick of everything going on so, I am just gonna leave my school, they are really mad at me for that, but if they don't care how I feel when they make me upset, I don't really think they are good enough friends to stay and spend my life with. I wanna get to know new people, that I can really be good friends with.There has been problems so bad that we SCREAM at each other on the phone, and I hve been trying to hold back as much as I can and have gentle answers but what they say about me, makes me cry.

i think we should work thru this together. i have the EXACT same problem. wat i have tried doing is just spacing my way from them even tho i thought i could trust them but now i am almost sure i cant i have just tried to make new friends. try it, it mite work. it hasnt been that long since i have tried it but it has started to work, i hope it works for u.

God did it!!!!!!! but this is what happened. I have been praying for Gods word to show me what to do do, and I soon hopped upon the verses in Eph. 4:26-27: [color=#FF0000] 26Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: 27Neither give place to the devil.-KJV[/color] and I first pointed out to each of them what this verse means and how everytime we get angry the devil gets a foot hold on that anger and tempts us in others ways, like for me when I am angry I tend to Gossip, that is a sin, so Anger gives place to the devil. Then I pointed out that Jesus told us not only to not let the sun go down when we are angry, but Jesus also said : [color=#FF0000] 23Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; 24Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.-[/color] Matthew 5:23-24 So we need to take of our problems quickly, we couldn't apologize to God until we apologized to each other. One thing we had a problem with was that we would sit there and tell each other EVERY problem we had with each other, but recently I learned what the Bible said about doing that in Proverbs chapter 29 verse 11: [color=#FF0000]11A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards[/color] I realized that when we tell each other every problem we have with each other, we only get more mad. I then looked at the fruits of the spirit in Galatians 5:22-23: [color=#FF0000]22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 23Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.[/color] I realized if we stick to that, then we won't fight at all, so in the end I relaized all we have to do is: Apologze for what we have done wrong, and forgive the others for what they have did, also the Bible says: [color=#FF0000]9He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends. - Proverbs 17:9[/color] We alot of the time bring up with each other what happened a long time ago and then fight about that but if we stick to that verse, it won't happen So this is how I solved my problem, I am sure we will not be getting into fights anymore, if we stick to what the Bible says.Thank you so much for all of your help everybody.