Well, i'm bi. I have kinda just discovered it. And I have developed a small crush on my friend Jess. I came out to my friends a couple days ago and they told Jess about it and now she's freaked. She told her mom and I think her mom might say that I won't be able to hang out with her anymore. :( What should I do? I REALLY need help...

Post edited by: sonicroxie, at: 2008/01/09 16:30

ok.... i have a few sugg.'s.. first, if you DONT want to continue being bi, then you need to tell an adult or a couselor to get counseling..... next, think about this... if you just figured out that your friend had a crush on you..... wouldnt u be a bit freaked?? just give her some time to adjust and talk about it. hope it helped mit lieber, bentlie

[b]BentlieMarie wrote:[/b] [quote]ok.... i have a few sugg.'s.. first, if you DONT want to continue being bi, then you need to tell an adult or a couselor to get counseling..... next, think about this... if you just figured out that your friend had a crush on you..... wouldnt u be a bit freaked?? just give her some time to adjust and talk about it. hope it helped mit lieber, bentlie[/quote] *sigh* I wanted advice from someone who ISN'T a homophobe...

umm ok?? well a couple of my frends are bi..i dnt really kare that they are though. if ur frends were really ur frends they would except u as u are.. i hope that helps. :) ~!!!SiDnEy!!!~

[b]khakigirl wrote:[/b] [quote][b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]BentlieMarie wrote:[/b] [quote]ok.... i have a few sugg.'s.. first, if you DONT want to continue being bi, then you need to tell an adult or a couselor to get counseling..... next, think about this... if you just figured out that your friend had a crush on you..... wouldnt u be a bit freaked?? just give her some time to adjust and talk about it. hope it helped mit lieber, bentlie[/quote] *sigh* I wanted advice from someone who ISN'T a homophobe...[/quote] Sonie, I think she was just trying to be helpful, not trying to be a homophobe![/quote] Sorry, I think it was the counseling statement that ticked me off. I'm sorry if I insulted anyone.

no! my friend WAS bi, but she told the counselor and got the counselor to help her become straight becauze she didnt want to be bi... i was just saying that incause you DONT want to continue being that way..... gosh

[b]BentlieMarie wrote:[/b] [quote]no! my friend WAS bi, but she told the counselor and got the counselor to help her become straight becauze she didnt want to be bi... i was just saying that incause you DONT want to continue being that way..... gosh[/quote] Like I said, i'm sorry.

no offense, but u should be

[b]BentlieMarie wrote:[/b] [quote]ok.... i have a few sugg.'s.. first, if you DONT want to continue being bi, then you need to tell an adult or a couselor to get counseling..... next, think about this... if you just figured out that your friend had a crush on you..... wouldnt u be a bit freaked?? just give her some time to adjust and talk about it. hope it helped mit lieber, bentlie[/quote] you can't tell a person to just STOP being bi. if she has come to the realization that she is bi- better sooner off than later. yes she may need a counselor to help her cope with her feelings, but you can't necessarily tell her to STOP. i have a question about this though. how did you come to the realization that you were bi? how do you actually KNOW? meanwhile, i'm in your corner. if you want to talk, vent, or just rant about this- message me. if you just want a friend who is just there for you- i'm here. it is understandable that your friend's mum may not let you hang around her any longer, but just try to talk to your friend, Jess, and her mum about it. let me know how that goes. you are in my thoughts & prayers. *hugs*

Post edited by: blkndbeautiful, at: 2008/01/15 20:53

wow there are a lot more[b] Christian [/b]gay girls out there then i thought!!! when you say your bi, what about that is ok to you! i mean i can get that your maybe afraid of guys, or that you can't get over what ever it is thats passing throught your head when you look at a girl, but let it pass! i mean i know some gay guys, but to me a friend is someone that shares the same beliefs as me, But do i really want my girlfriend whose always around to lust over [url]me?[/url] i don't think so, and your only 12!!! now think about if you had a 12 year old, who was still trying to become a young Christian follower of Christ, would you really want her to be influeced, by a bi! Being Bi is a sin, and we all sin, but tell me this, does that make sinning right. We as Christians want to be more like Christ right? so we make mistakes, learn from them, and forget them! being bi is just like every other sin! if you are bi, learn to let that sin pass through your head, and leave it behind! [b]put it on the cross![/b] I'll be praying 4 U