ok, there's this guy at my school who i really REALLY like. but there are a few problems... 1. i swear, by the way he treats me (he makes fun of me and suggested to me in an indirect manner to switch seats with a girl he hangs out with) that he pretty much hates me. (or, if hate is too strong a word, dislike with a passion) 2. he's a Mormon. and i honestly don't know if it's alright to date Mormons. is there ne1 out there that can help me?:(

Wow! That's compliacated. I really don't have any advice. Sorry. :(

Hey! What's up? I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm almost 17, but I can offer you advice, 'cause I have plenty of friends (who are girls of course) who have had boyfriends before. 1. To answer the first question, if the guy is treating you rude, he honestly isn't worth your time of effort, no matter how much you like him. Take it from me, I have gone out with a scumbag guy who was a jerk before (the relationship only lasted two days, so I don't count him as a boyfriend), and it was not good at all (the guy eventually ended up going to jail, but we won't go there.;) )! If a guy truely liked you, he would go out of his way to be nice to you, and would treat you with kindness. If the guy is rude and he knows he can control you, going out with him could possibly lead to dating violence, and once it starts, it keeps on cycling and never stops. Trust me on this one, if the guy is rude, DON'T GO OUT WITH HIM! Find yourself a guy who is anti-jerk, ok? 2. To answer the second question, NO it is not good to go out with a Mormon, or any non-Christian for that matter. We as Christians are called to be "equally yoked" which means joined together (you could call it marraige) with someone of the same faith, which would mean another Christian. Mormons have some crazy wacked out belief that the better you are in life (or something like that), then you'll get your own planet and be like your own god or something. Mormons do not believe that Jesus is the Son of God, and are totally opposite of Christianity! Dating a Mormon would be dating someone with different beliefs than us, which we don't want to do! So, find yourself a nice, cute Christian guy who will treat you good and you'll be set! Good luck! Here is the verse from the Bible that talks about the equally yoked stuff that I mentioned: 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" horsechic1990 P.S. By the way, don't worry! Your only 13, so you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend! God will bring you the right one in His timing!

[b]horsechic1990 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hey! What's up? I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm almost 17, but I can offer you advice, 'cause I have plenty of friends (who are girls of course) who have had boyfriends before. 1. To answer the first question, if the guy is treating you rude, he honestly isn't worth your time of effort, no matter how much you like him. Take it from me, I have gone out with a scumbag guy who was a jerk before (the relationship only lasted two days, so I don't count him as a boyfriend), and it was not good at all (the guy eventually ended up going to jail, but we won't go there.;) )! If a guy truely liked you, he would go out of his way to be nice to you, and would treat you with kindness. If the guy is rude and he knows he can control you, going out with him could possibly lead to dating violence, and once it starts, it keeps on cycling and never stops. Trust me on this one, if the guy is rude, DON'T GO OUT WITH HIM! Find yourself a guy who is anti-jerk, ok? 2. To answer the second question, NO it is not good to go out with a Mormon, or any non-Christian for that matter. We as Christians are called to be "equally yoked" which means joined together (you could call it marraige) with someone of the same faith, which would mean another Christian. Mormons have some crazy wacked out belief that the better you are in life (or something like that), then you'll get your own planet and be like your own god or something. Mormons do not believe that Jesus is the Son of God, and are totally opposite of Christianity! Dating a Mormon would be dating someone with different beliefs than us, which we don't want to do! So, find yourself a nice, cute Christian guy who will treat you good and you'll be set! Good luck! Here is the verse from the Bible that talks about the equally yoked stuff that I mentioned: 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" horsechic1990 P.S. By the way, don't worry! Your only 13, so you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend! God will bring you the right one in His timing![/quote] thank you so much for the help! i've been puzzling over this for months have had no idea what to do, and what you say makes sense and i will pray that God will let me follow this excellent advice.

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]horsechic1990 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hey! What's up? I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm almost 17, but I can offer you advice, 'cause I have plenty of friends (who are girls of course) who have had boyfriends before. 1. To answer the first question, if the guy is treating you rude, he honestly isn't worth your time of effort, no matter how much you like him. Take it from me, I have gone out with a scumbag guy who was a jerk before (the relationship only lasted two days, so I don't count him as a boyfriend), and it was not good at all (the guy eventually ended up going to jail, but we won't go there.;) )! If a guy truely liked you, he would go out of his way to be nice to you, and would treat you with kindness. If the guy is rude and he knows he can control you, going out with him could possibly lead to dating violence, and once it starts, it keeps on cycling and never stops. Trust me on this one, if the guy is rude, DON'T GO OUT WITH HIM! Find yourself a guy who is anti-jerk, ok? 2. To answer the second question, NO it is not good to go out with a Mormon, or any non-Christian for that matter. We as Christians are called to be "equally yoked" which means joined together (you could call it marraige) with someone of the same faith, which would mean another Christian. Mormons have some crazy wacked out belief that the better you are in life (or something like that), then you'll get your own planet and be like your own god or something. Mormons do not believe that Jesus is the Son of God, and are totally opposite of Christianity! Dating a Mormon would be dating someone with different beliefs than us, which we don't want to do! So, find yourself a nice, cute Christian guy who will treat you good and you'll be set! Good luck! Here is the verse from the Bible that talks about the equally yoked stuff that I mentioned: 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" horsechic1990 P.S. By the way, don't worry! Your only 13, so you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend! God will bring you the right one in His timing![/quote] thank you so much for the help! i've been puzzling over this for months have had no idea what to do, and what you say makes sense and i will pray that God will let me follow this excellent advice.[/quote] Your so very welcome! I was glad that I could help! Message me if you need any more help on anything, and I'll help you the best I can! God Bless you!

it is ok B be happy

Hey I know what u r going through... I am fifteen ...gonna b sixteen in april..but anyway..there is this guy that i like..and. 1.He has a girlfriend 2He is 18 3he is a senior in highschool and I am a freshman. So should i just be friends with him or what???:P

[b]EHSFreshman2010 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hey I know what u r going through... I am fifteen ...gonna b sixteen in april..but anyway..there is this guy that i like..and. 1.He has a girlfriend 2He is 18 3he is a senior in highschool and I am a freshman. So should i just be friends with him or what???:P[/quote] well, wow... if he has a girlfriend, i suggest you don't flirt with him, cuz you might confuse and upset him (since you know, he's already taken) and it's always messy when the guy you like is about to graduate, and depending on which state you live in, it can be illegal to date someone who's 18 or older (unless you yourself are 18 or older) so right now, just sit tight, and be content with being his friend. i hope this helped.

dont really have advise BUT DONT DATE MORMONS! THEY ARE TWISTED... John 1:1 (Christian Bible) In the Begining was the Word, & the Word was with God & the WORD was God.... (MORMON STYLE)In the Begining was the Word, & the Word was with God & the WORD was "A" god....(lower case in their so called bible)

i have advise u act like it does not hurt u but dont laugh if he is laughing at u ok that juz wrong but dont pay no attention and i know it is hard but act like u dont like him and dont pay no attention to him and he will stop becuz u are no fun to make fun of and if he iz a mormon belive me i know mormonz ok i live him them lol but juz walk up to him and be like i think u act like a 2 year old and and then say it is true take the advise when u get it and then walk away i did it before if i am missing something tell me and i will give u more advise or difrent advise and i can help i am telling u out of my personal expr ok all my friendz are like u give good advise and it works so like i said we can talk ok ttyl:)