ok, so there's this guy at my school. i go to a private christian school but only a few people are christians; he isn't one of them. he is really hot, he used to be a gymnast so he has a great body, and he's really nice. he has a girlfriend, but he still flirts with me at school and we talk on myspace. i think he hates christianity, his song reflects that. i really like him, and if we got to know each other and wanted to go out, should i? if you have any suggestions, comments, advice, anything, i'm open!! by the way, I am 15.

think of it this way,,if you was standing up on a chair and he was standing on the ground blow you, would it be easier for you to pull him up on the chair or for you to pull him up?? the chair is your christianity....he would pull you away from it before you could pull him into it. Good luck Emma lou

I don't know what your reasons are for dating someone but I believe that dating is finding the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with. If you ended up marrying this guy, as a christian (whether he is one or not) you are supposed to submitt to him. If he hates God, what kind of a spirtual head of the home does that make him? And where does that leave you? I wouldn't try missionary dating either. We as girls subconsiously or not seem to think that we can change guys. Well, we can't. I would suggest that you avoid the relationship.

that's a really good analogy. i've heard it before, but no like that. i'm gonna try to think of that the next time i see him. thank u very much!

I'm glad you see it that way. :lol: That is a cool analogy. I agree with rachelelaine - the whole purpose of dating is to find someone to spend you life with, and as Christians, we are not supposed to marry unbelievers. Why waste your time, let alone your emotions and potential heartache, dating someone who is not good for you?