Alright so my friend...let's just make up a name, Jane. Ok so Jane(14)(Christian) isn't allowed to date and she uses it to her advantage. Jane will do anything that's not sex, will do anything up to that line. So she will make-out with a few guys and then just leave them, no relationship or anything just like a one time thing. And Jane does this all the time. I don't know how to say this...but Jane let's guys' finger her through her pants. Jane is just going in the wrong direction spiritually. She won't listen to me when I try to give my views on what she is doing. Thanks -Caitlyn

Wow this one is tough. All I can say is really pray. Pray for her to spiritually grow because once your closer to God, you won't want to do those things. That's all I have to say. :]