okay, all you ladies who have been through your high school years i need some help. there is this guy that i am really attracted to. like physically attracted to. and i know know that if i allow myself , i may do things with him that i would regret later. i am recently out of a relationship , and this guy has been there for me. i have already dated him once. i know that he is willing to cross that line, and i am not totally sure that if given the chance i would say no. i know that is wrong. what do i do? btw, this guy is like my best guy friend, and we have jokingly talked about , you know,. and some things that were said by both of us, did seem like totally joking. can you help me?

Post edited by: sonworshipper, at: 2008/05/11 20:43

PRAY PRAY PRAY PRAY PRAAAAAAY!!!!!!! Lord, pray! Tell him you don't think these jokes about "this" (you know what I mean) are funny or that you like these jokes, and that he needs to drop it. And keep yourself away from temptation. Stay in public places with him, with lots of people. If you go somewhere with him, go in a group and don't let him get you alone. Never go to his house unless you know for sure that his parents will be there. (Likewise for your own house.) I'll be praying.

i totally agree with Bittersweet, PRAY! just recently i was in the same situation, me n a guy went past where i wanted to go (not all the way thank goodness). i couldnt sleep because i felt guilty, i felt like id let people down. in the end i text him and told him i couldnt be alone with him cause he is too much of a temptation for me. but thats just me i say dont get yourself into a situation where your morals are tested, stay where everyone can see you. i also dont think its a good idea that your talking about doing stuff, it makes you more likly to actually do something i think. ill be praying for you