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Advice Please!!!

faithalive

19 year(s) ago

Hello everyone. I have a friend that has come to me for advice with another friend. Does that make sense? Anyway her friend who is 15, is having sex with a guy that is 18. My friend does not know if she should tell the girls parents or do something else. Does anyone have any suggestions because I have no idea what to tell her. :unsure: Thanks, Amanda

Emma-Kate03

19 year(s) ago

maybe she should talk to the girl. and if she doesnt want to listen to what she says, then well im not sure:unsure: i guess the most important thing to do is pray about it.....

kAiLeE-xOxO

19 year(s) ago

tell your friend to tell her what she's doing comes at a very high price, esp. for such a young age. she should also tell this girl that it's wrong, and people that do this stuff usually don't have a ''great" reputation. [ i know a few, and i don't like them very much ] and even though she may feel like it's ok, it's rele not, she [ and this boy] are messing with something bigger than the both of them. i know this not bcuz i've had sex before [ i've decided to wait ] but because i have friends like this. God bless

Proud2beSaved

19 year(s) ago

[b]faithalive wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello everyone. I have a friend that has come to me for advice with another friend. Does that make sense? Anyway her friend who is 15, is having sex with a guy that is 18. My friend does not know if she should tell the girls parents or do something else. Does anyone have any suggestions because I have no idea what to tell her. :unsure: Thanks, Amanda[/quote] Tell her that she should NOT tell her parents because the girl would get upset with her because she told, then they wouldn't be friends anymore. Tell her that she should talk with the girl and try to convince her to stop having sex with that guy because there are consequences for your actions. She could get AIDS, STDs, unexpected pregnancy, stuff like that. You can't just have sex with anyone unless they are you husband/wife. NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!!! I'm sure her parents would be very upset. U know what? On the other hand, she should tell her because her parents would be very proud of her because they love their daughter and want her to be safe. U choose what to say to her, but just remember, if you tell her that she should not tell her parents, then she will keep having sex with him, but if you tell her that she should tell the girls parents, the girl will be mad at her and her parents will be proud of her... just think about it... you can add me if you want to be my friend and i can give u more advice.

horsechic1990

19 year(s) ago

Flip through the Bible in the New Testament (I think it's found in 1 Thess. or somewhere around there) and have the friend show the girl where it says in the Bible that God condemns sex before marraige. Also have your friend tell her about the consequenses of sex before marraige. Someone should tell the girl's parents too. If the girl didn't want her parents to know that she was having sex, then she shouldn't have been having sex in the first place. I hope that helps!

treasureluvers

19 year(s) ago

hey. uh one of my friends does stuff i dont think she shud be doing. i think you mite talk to that friend and well if she continues well i think her parents need 2 know bc like even though she'll be mad (probably) it'll save her from STDs and AIDs and early pregnancy. and well the friends well being is more important than wether the friendship can last.....u know? well good luck!

treasureluvers

19 year(s) ago

hey. uh one of my friends does stuff i dont think she shud be doing. i think you mite talk to that friend and well if she continues well i think her parents need 2 know bc like even though she'll be mad (probably) it'll save her from STDs and AIDs and early pregnancy. and well the friends well being is more important than wether the friendship can last.....u know? well good luck!

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