[/b][color=#000080][/color] ok sooo this is verry long and stupid story but here it goes... alright so theres this guy i like alot ive been praying that if god didnt want it to work out that he would show me or make me stop liking him...soooo these last fue monthes ive been praying bout it and little did i know it so was he... without me telling him i liked him he told me he liked me alot and so is god letting me do this or what? but the story gets longer... sooooo my friend she went out with this guy previously and she said she will hate me forever if i do this... its rediculous im falling for this guy hes totaly christian and he opens doors and even wants to ask my dad if he can date me... but my friend will hate me we are all 18 and graduating this year we r all going to the same collage so its rediculous to cary highschool drama on into colage drama right? so do i pick the guy love him and have my friend hate me or do i leave the guy have my friends like me still and be sad and possibly loose a realy great guy?

MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!That staory started out so good, then your friend had to ruin it, I am serouis, I was SOOOOOOOO happy for you for the first few seconds until I kep reading, I hate how stories go bad. Any way, I have been through stuff liket his, even though I am only 13. If you want the advice everyone is going to give you, and probably the most wise advice for this situation then read the first paragraph, If you want advice that probably only I am gonna give you from experince and for friendship, and the advice you would choose as a human (I have no easier words to put that it) then read paragraph 2. 1. Your friend should be happy for you, and soon that hate will go away, if she is your real friend she will back off and let you date the guy you have loved (or crushed on, however you want to put it) She also wouldn't hate you that fast for something that could be (depending on the situation) so little.You definitly need to think about what kind of friend you have. 2. Dating, should'nt EVER come between friendship!!! It ruins everything!! trust me. If she still wants this guy, I would say let her have him, (if the guy doesn't feel the same way about her, then she has to deal with that herself) but you need to talk to her about it. Your friendship is way important. Honestly she should'nt neccessarisly HATE you, but you should (not stop liking him) but just wait, don't date him yet. When me and my friends went through this with the guy we liked it was hard. I chose to back off the cutest guy in school so that we wouldn't fight or let this guy get between our friendship, That was the best desiscion I ever made, the guy is moving away now, and I will never see him again,yet I will see my friends FOREVER,so i saved a friendship by backing up, [size=4][color=#800080][b]it may not work out the same way with you though, you are 18 and actually have a chance of marrying the guy, so pray deeply, talk to your friend, see what happens.[/b][/color][/size] I hoped that helped, maybe you should read some other advice from other girls first, then look into it deeper.B) - Rachael

[b]broken-but-beautifull wrote:[/b] [quote][/b][color=#000080][/color] ok sooo this is verry long and stupid story but here it goes... alright so theres this guy i like alot ive been praying that if god didnt want it to work out that he would show me or make me stop liking him...soooo these last fue monthes ive been praying bout it and little did i know it so was he... without me telling him i liked him he told me he liked me alot and so is god letting me do this or what? but the story gets longer... sooooo my friend she went out with this guy previously and she said she will hate me forever if i do this... its rediculous im falling for this guy hes totaly christian and he opens doors and even wants to ask my dad if he can date me... but my friend will hate me we are all 18 and graduating this year we r all going to the same collage so its rediculous to cary highschool drama on into colage drama right? so do i pick the guy love him and have my friend hate me or do i leave the guy have my friends like me still and be sad and possibly loose a realy great guy?[/quote] wow. well, I feel like God's wanting me to do [i]something[/i] but WHAT I have no idea...it waqs driving me CRAZY! and i was growing really weary and impatient with Him and cryed out "GOD, WHY are You doing this to me?! PLZ just tell me what You want me to do!" and as i read my bible i saw a highlighted verse "Be still and wait patiently upon the Lord"...its in Psalms somwhere...sorry, 4got exact verse, but I suggest taking God's advice on this one. Be patient and wait! hope this helps...

300 PEOPLE IS ALOT!!! my school has only 75. YOUR GRADUATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Happy....uhhh.graduation day!!!;) so anyway, yeah i can tell you can understand, serouisly in my own opinion, I wouldn't let this guy come between you and her friendship, but once again, a real friend would be happy for you.