Well I never had a bf in my whole life..I feel left out when all my friends do have one.I want to be accepted and loved..it feels like I am NEVER gonna have a bf.am I the only one feeling this way?

Have you ever heard the song "Barlow Girl" by Superchick? It is an awesome song celebrating those girls who put Christ first and are willing to wait as long as possible for their Prince Charming to come and sweep them off their feet, not wasting their time with guys who are less than amazing. Know that God has someone perfect in mind for you and, the longer you wait, the more godly both you and he will be! How great would it be on your wedding day to say to your man, "I didn't waste time kissing frogs trying to find you."

I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend before, and yes, sometimes it does feel like I'll be single forever. Take it from me, everytime I've tried to get a date, it NEVER WORKS, no matter how hard I try. For example, last year one of my good friends tried hooking me up with a guy she knew who is 18 and it didn't work 'cause I was too young for him (I was 16 at that time too and he only wanted to date girls who were no more than 1 year younger than him). Then one of my other friends tried hooking me up with a friend of hers who is 15 and he wasn't allowed to go to dances for another year (he turned out to be Morman anyways)! Then the same friend who tried hooking me up with the 18 year old guy knew this guy who was 15 and he thought I was cute and everything and would have gone out with me if he was allowed to go to dances (he isn't allowed for another year or so either)! See, for me it never works, but maybe that is God's way of saying that I shouldn't date now, but who knows. My cousin didn't even get his first serious girlfriend until he was 18 (I think he's about 21 now), so don't worry, you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend! And plus maybe God hasn't brought you the right one yet!

Girly, take it from me. Yes I'm only 14, but I've already had six bfs. They really aren't the best until they get older and know how to treat a girl. I mean, yeah it's fun to have one, but it's best to stay out of it until you and God are ready. You might think you're ready, but trust me, you most likely aren't. Heck, I know what it's like. Most of my friends have bfs, and I've been single for almost a year now. YAY!!!!!!!!! sorry, just a small outburst there. But, anyway it's best to wait for the right guy b/c if you don't, you will just be flat out miserable. Or, you might be miserable, you doubt it, and then you convince yourself that you are in love with them. So, my advice about this is to just stay out of it until you and God are ready b/c God will send you the perfect guy.

You know, I think that question all of the time but I have learned to tell myself that if I don't worry about it and I just wait then some day I will find someone so special that all of my friends right now with boyfriends will look at me with mine andwish they would have waited for that perfect one. It is so hard with everything going on in high school but just keep your eyes open!

You know, I think that question all of the time but I have learned to tell myself that if I don't worry about it and I just wait then some day I will find someone so special that all of my friends right now with boyfriends will look at me with mine andwish they would have waited for that perfect one. It is so hard with everything going on in high school but just keep your eyes open!