If you remember, a few days ago I posted that my best friend was dating this new guy and I didn't approve. If you haven't seen the thread, it's titled "Gosh." You need to read it to understand this post. Anyway, now to the update for those of you who read it already: He has already cheated on her (shocker!) and she knows about it. However, she has done absolutely nothing about it. Nothing. I'm extremely disappointed in her. Then, today her smart-mouthed idiot boyfriend decided that it'd be cool to make remarks about a person that is very dear to me and then smart off to me when I got defensive. I completely lost my cool and told him off, then I proceded to tell my best friend, "I'm very sorry, but I seriously just CAN NOT talk to you until you two break up." I felt like it was what I needed to say and do, so I did it. I just can't take it if she is not going to stand up for herself and her best friend. That's all I ask of her is that she stand up for herself one time. Sorry for the long post, but I'm sure you guys would like to know how that whole situation was going. In one word: Terrible.

Have you told her about your disappointment? Have you tried calmly talking to her about all of this? I think it would be a good idea to apologise to her but explain why you snapped.

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Have you told her about your disappointment? Have you tried calmly talking to her about all of this? I think it would be a good idea to apologise to her but explain why you snapped.[/quote] And I did just that last night. She understands where I was coming from when I snapped at her and she understands my disappointment. However, she still has done abslutely nothing about it. *sigh* I guess I'll just sit back, keep my mouth shut, and wait for this one to pass.

Sounds like a good plan, just be there for her.