Long story short, I worked with a guy who's about a year younger than me at a camp this summer and he really really liked hugs. I thought he was just being friendly. Everyone else called him a perv, but I never really saw anything that made me think so. A few months later, a trusted fellow counselor (an adult) told me what she had witnessed of him and how he really was a perv. And yes, she used the word [i]perv[/i]. I don't remember what all she said, but I was ticked. Not to mention being squeezed by him and another guy PB&J style in a "hug" that nearly suffocated me. I feel very used! Betrayed. Thinking these guys were friends and realizing...not so much. They did teach me one thing though: I'm far too trusting. I realize this isn't like the sexual harassment that some of y'all have experienced, but I still want to punch this guy's lights out once or twice. How do you move on?