[size=4][color=#0000FF][color=#000080]so i need some encouragement........ so i find this great guy we fall in love and we are bolth christian time goes on we are getting to know each other we bolth agree that without god our relationship is nothing and he says he wants to mary me we pray about it we fast and talk to god and we bolth got the same answer it was a yes... i was so happy this last august was our 3th aneversery (going out).. it was great we had little problems but none big enough to alter our love till this last month he tells me he kissed another girl 3 times in a week i am broken at this point but i gave him a second chance i wanted it to work and i guess so did he...well 3 weeks later (today) he calls me crying he tels me that he not only made out with her but he had oral sex with her...he says i love u still..... and i cant be hurt any more i cant stop loving him but i have nothing left to give him... im hurt and broken....i need help...[/color][/size]

hey this is amber i can try to help, i ws in the same place you are in i was going out with this guy my freshman year, we broke up went back out and so on. anyways i have datedf him 10 times this is my 10th time, i love him so much and it's hard to move on. So i hope everything goes well with you and this guy.

my heart is breaking for you right now. i can only imagine how hurt you must be. i have to say that i am really proud of you for taking your time and seeking God on this topic. i know that this is going to be a really hard time for you, but seek comfort in God. He had to take me through a similar situation to finally make me realize that He was and is and always will be my true love, and that He was really the only one who would never let me down. so take comfort princess, He loves you and you can lean on Him.

yeah these ast fue days have been rough... the thing is is i LOVED him and i dont know if he really loved me...:huh:

i hate to say this, and i know it must be hard, but as an outsider looking in, i think you should break up with him. I dont think he values you as much as you value him... give him several months to find himself... he needs to realize where his priorities lie... after praying about it, and assessing the situation after a period of time, if both of you feel it's right, give him a second chance... but just be careful... you don't want to end up getting hurt again. however God unfolds the situation, just remember that it is the best thing for you... God has huge plans for you, and whether this guy is involved in them or not is up to God

[size=4][b]i already gave him a second chance... but it hurts way bad... i havent talked to him in 3 days...[/b][/size]

i really feel for u...... i mean ive nvr been in this sit. b4 but if it was me id prob. jus wait....... u say u havent talked in 3days well...leave it that way...just wait.....and pray about it! if u make ne actions b4 waiting, u might do something ud regret..... i wouldnt hurry back into a relationship w/ the guy..... if u wait ull be able to see it from a diff. perspective....... and if u pray that u would desire wat God desires for u..... u feelings for him might change....or ull see it differently..... i hope this helps evry1 has given such great advice! im prayin for ya!!!

hey keep praying. but in my opinion [b]you deserve a heck of a lot better!![/b] he isn't worth your time if he is going to cheat on you and that is exactly what he's doing. God isn't in his side of the relationship or this wouldn't have happened. Just remember its not your fault, he's a jerk. Keep looking your profile says your 18, you are still young! Enjoy life and find a man who will treat you with respect and love! Take it slow 3 months isn't a long time to get to know someone for marriage. Good luck and God bless!

[size=4]yeah so pretty much i have came to ternms that i was being used:evil: and it hurts alot... i now understand why they say not to date till ur atleast 20...guys r immature and dont know them selves yet...[/size]