Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?

Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15

no, the thing is that girls my age wanna grow up soooooooooooo fast they start liking guys, but it is way more fun being single, lol, they don't even realize it. I don't wanna date yet, anyway, once girls hit 13, they think they are a real teenager and wanna start doing teenager stuff, thats why they say all this stuff about being in love and everything.(not baggin on anyone my age or anything, just saying)

[b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?<br><br>Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15[/quote] you need to shut up about other ppls business you got it?! :angry: :angry: you are being over dramatic about what other ppl agree and disagree. i suggest you shut up this. You are the one that needs to grow up lady! :angry: :angry: [img size=111]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/angry.jpg[/img]

[b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?<br><br>Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15[/quote] you need to shut up about other ppls business you got it?! :angry: :angry: you are being over dramatic about what other ppl agree and disagree. i suggest you shut up this. You are the one that needs to grow up lady! :angry: :angry: [img size=111]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/angry.jpg[/img][/quote] Yeah, I need to grow up. :blink:

[b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?<br><br>Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15[/quote] you need to shut up about other ppls business you got it?! :angry: :angry: you are being over dramatic about what other ppl agree and disagree. i suggest you shut up this. You are the one that needs to grow up lady! :angry: :angry: [img size=111]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/angry.jpg[/img][/quote] Please, lets all be nice and respect eachothers opinions, okay? This is not how God would want us to be treating eachother...If you dont agree with the thread, maybe you can post in a nicer way and say what you dont agree with. This is definitely not the best way to handle things...Please, lets try and be nice :)

Post edited by: MyHeartsNAfrica, at: 2007/08/16 05:30

I side with MyHeartsNAfrica. We all have opinions on how to live, and only G-d knows what way is right. And do I sense an eleven year old in "love"? (I'm sorry, but I just got that feeling.)

Thank you both for sticking up for me! You guys are true sisters in Christ! I was being harsh in my original post, but I would never claim it to be over dramatic. I have been on here of over a year. I have seen my fair share of this forum and the threads. I wasn't blaming any of this on one person. It really is the way or society is today! And I'm not claiming that I have it all figured out and I haven't liked guys and been crushed by a crush. But I think that is why I realized how much valuable God time I have spent PMing my crush just 6 months ago. I wasted 7 months of my life on a guy who knew me as his ex-girl friends best friend. Yeah, I know, right, pathetic. But i didn't start a thread on it! I mean, a person looking at it from the outside wouldn't understand, no matter how eloquently I explained he had a dreamy smile and amazing hair. They just wouldn't get it! I learned to talk to God about my problems and my mother and my older girl friends. Not people I don't even know! But if someone want a complete stranger to tell them what they should do in their relationships, fine. That is their choice. I am going to tell them the truth. Pre-teens do not need to be dating. This isn't medeval times whengirls were married and cranking out babies at 14!

[b]MyHeartsNAfrica wrote:[/b] [quote][b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?<br><br>Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15[/quote] you need to shut up about other ppls business you got it?! :angry: :angry: you are being over dramatic about what other ppl agree and disagree. i suggest you shut up this. You are the one that needs to grow up lady! :angry: :angry: [img size=111]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/angry.jpg[/img][/quote] Please, lets all be nice and respect eachothers opinions, okay? This is not how God would want us to be treating eachother...If you dont agree with the thread, maybe you can post in a nicer way and say what you dont agree with. This is definitely not the best way to handle things...Please, lets try and be nice :)<br><br>Post edited by: MyHeartsNAfrica, at: 2007/08/16 05:30[/quote] but did you even SEE what she wrote! she is lucky i didnt report her [img size=145]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/2783006161.jpg[/img]

[b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?<br><br>Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15[/quote] you need to shut up about other ppls business you got it?! :angry: :angry: you are being over dramatic about what other ppl agree and disagree. i suggest you shut up this. You are the one that needs to grow up lady! :angry: :angry: [img size=111]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/angry.jpg[/img][/quote] OK, please calm down. Telling someone to grow up isn't a very grown up thing to do. dancingwithtomatoes was just saying what was on her heart and I don't think she was being dramatic. We need to treat each other how God wants us to. Its ok that you don't agree with her post, no one said you had to, but you could state your opinion in a nicer way :)

[b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]MyHeartsNAfrica wrote:[/b] [quote][b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Hello, everyone! I am having a boyfriend issue. And do you want to know what the issue is? [size=5]We all need to grow up! [/size] I am sick of having a million threads all saying the same thing. Either "Do you think I am pretty?" or "I like him, he doesnt like me." I am sick of it! He doesnt like you. Sorry about your luck. And how do I know if you are pretty? Inner beauty can't be determind through a blurry snapshot! And don't even get me started on 10 and 11 year olds having boyfriends and being in "love." That is a road not even lil-rush wants to see me go down, because it wouldn't be pretty. We need to get deap and serious here. What are we doing with the time God gives us!?! Wasting it on men that we break up with in a few weeks? That is great, ladies. But is that what really matters?<br><br>Post edited by: dancingwithtomatoes42, at: 2007/08/14 05:15[/quote] you need to shut up about other ppls business you got it?! :angry: :angry: you are being over dramatic about what other ppl agree and disagree. i suggest you shut up this. You are the one that needs to grow up lady! :angry: :angry: [img size=111]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/angry.jpg[/img][/quote] Please, lets all be nice and respect eachothers opinions, okay? This is not how God would want us to be treating eachother...If you dont agree with the thread, maybe you can post in a nicer way and say what you dont agree with. This is definitely not the best way to handle things...Please, lets try and be nice :)<br><br>Post edited by: MyHeartsNAfrica, at: 2007/08/16 05:30[/quote] but did you even SEE what she wrote! she is lucky i didnt report her [img size=145]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/2783006161.jpg[/img][/quote]...I just said what was on my mind. You caould have reported me, but I doubt anything would have happened. Sam, the Admin, started a thread like this.