I'm having a problem with this guy. He likes me but I don't like him I've told him I'm not looking for a relationship but he keeps wanting to hang out and do other stuff sort of like a date. How do I let him down gently?

Keep telling him no. If he decides that he won't take no and gracefully walk away, then don't worry about the gently. Sometimes gentle shoves work, sometimes it takes more of a push, you know? If you need to tell him somewhat of a new perspective, tell him that it makes you really uncomfortable to think of doing anything that could be taken as a date. If he wants to do something with you, then why can't he just hang out in group settings? Why does it have to be one on one if it isn't a date? That's just bending the rules, and you just are not comfortable with being alone with guys in places.

Its also okay just to be friends... right? A lot of my guy friends have liked me every now and then, and its hard to let them down gently. But another friend is another friend! But if he tries to get touchy and wants to be more then friends... I guess just set limits. And if that doesn't work, push him off the friend wagon.

There is a reason my dad taught me some basic arm-twisting moves.

[b]KattyKit wrote:[/b] [quote]There is a reason my dad taught me some basic arm-twisting moves.[/quote] And my mum taught me how to punch properly.

Oh, I taught my brother that.