ok im like in love with this boy that went to my church we were really good friends then he had to move to texas and i thought he liked me to but know he's always talking about this girl and i don't know what to do

Sweetie, your 12 years old...that's too young to know what love is, a crush maybe but not love. OK, so he moved...he's allowed to make new friends. Just cause he's talking about another girl doesn't mean he has a crush on her, they could just be good friends. Besides, there are [i]lot[/i] more important things to worry about. Such as school and your relationship with God. As to what you should do, you should focus on the Lord and your school work. Those should be two of the most important things in your life right now, not wondering if a guy likes you back. God will bring the right guy in your life, in His timing. He knows what's best for you, you just need to trust Him.

Post edited by: NeverAlone08, at: 2007/12/11 18:12

*Shakes head* Hun, I'll just say this, you're not in love, it's hormones. So ride it out, talk to this boy, and if he talks about another girl, who cares? This may be G-d's plan to help a girl out who is feeling down, or bring a little happiness to the boy's life. I dunno. But whatever. You're not in love, G-d'll bring you the perfect man for you in due time. But fair warning, I've never heard of anyone falling in love with their future husband when they're twelve. ;) Have fun with life, and stay this boy's friend. You never know, he may move back!

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]*Shakes head* Hun, I'll just say this, you're not in love, it's hormones. So ride it out, talk to this boy, and if he talks about another girl, who cares? This may be G-d's plan to help a girl out who is feeling down, or bring a little happiness to the boy's life. I dunno. But whatever. You're not in love, G-d'll bring you the perfect man for you in due time. But fair warning, I've never heard of anyone falling in love with their future husband when they're twelve. ;) Have fun with life, and stay this boy's friend. You never know, he may move back![/quote] My parent's met each other when they were 12, and they've been married for 15 years!

[b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]*Shakes head* Hun, I'll just say this, you're not in love, it's hormones. So ride it out, talk to this boy, and if he talks about another girl, who cares? This may be G-d's plan to help a girl out who is feeling down, or bring a little happiness to the boy's life. I dunno. But whatever. You're not in love, G-d'll bring you the perfect man for you in due time. But fair warning, I've never heard of anyone falling in love with their future husband when they're twelve. ;) Have fun with life, and stay this boy's friend. You never know, he may move back![/quote] My parent's met each other when they were 12, and they've been married for 15 years![/quote] Met? Yes. Fell in love with each other at that age? I doubt. And lameyO, you do have hormones. Hormones are the reason you have your period, breasts, hips, growth spurts, and pubic hair. If it weren't for hormones, you would still be a little child.

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]*Shakes head* Hun, I'll just say this, you're not in love, it's hormones. So ride it out, talk to this boy, and if he talks about another girl, who cares? This may be G-d's plan to help a girl out who is feeling down, or bring a little happiness to the boy's life. I dunno. But whatever. You're not in love, G-d'll bring you the perfect man for you in due time. But fair warning, I've never heard of anyone falling in love with their future husband when they're twelve. ;) Have fun with life, and stay this boy's friend. You never know, he may move back![/quote] My parent's met each other when they were 12, and they've been married for 15 years![/quote] Met? Yes. Fell in love with each other at that age? I doubt.[/quote] My dad had a crush on my mom, but they didn't start dating until they were 15 or 16.

[b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]*Shakes head* Hun, I'll just say this, you're not in love, it's hormones. So ride it out, talk to this boy, and if he talks about another girl, who cares? This may be G-d's plan to help a girl out who is feeling down, or bring a little happiness to the boy's life. I dunno. But whatever. You're not in love, G-d'll bring you the perfect man for you in due time. But fair warning, I've never heard of anyone falling in love with their future husband when they're twelve. ;) Have fun with life, and stay this boy's friend. You never know, he may move back![/quote] My parent's met each other when they were 12, and they've been married for 15 years![/quote] Met? Yes. Fell in love with each other at that age? I doubt.[/quote] My dad had a crush on my mom, but they didn't start dating until they were 15 or 16.[/quote] And I don't think they were necessarily in love at that point. (I am not doubting your parents' love for one another, but at that age it can be a little shaky.)

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]sonicroxie wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]*Shakes head* Hun, I'll just say this, you're not in love, it's hormones. So ride it out, talk to this boy, and if he talks about another girl, who cares? This may be G-d's plan to help a girl out who is feeling down, or bring a little happiness to the boy's life. I dunno. But whatever. You're not in love, G-d'll bring you the perfect man for you in due time. But fair warning, I've never heard of anyone falling in love with their future husband when they're twelve. ;) Have fun with life, and stay this boy's friend. You never know, he may move back![/quote] My parent's met each other when they were 12, and they've been married for 15 years![/quote] Met? Yes. Fell in love with each other at that age? I doubt.[/quote] My dad had a crush on my mom, but they didn't start dating until they were 15 or 16.[/quote] And I don't think they were necessarily in love at that point. (I am not doubting your parents' love for one another, but at that age it can be a little shaky.)[/quote] True. Apparently some girls think that boys with blue eyes (or other "attractive" outward appearences) are a perfect husband. I personaly want to be with someone that will love me for who I am, not what I look like and Vice/versa. I want someone that will attract me by their good nature, not their "pretty" eyes or skinny stomach.

i think u should tell him how u feel bcause who cares if ur only 12 u can still be in luv with some1. :cheer:

[b]bj-jw-sb wrote:[/b] [quote]i think u should tell him how u feel bcause who cares if ur only 12 u can still be in luv with some1. :cheer:[/quote] I agree! ;)