I have a friend that will remain nameless but thats not the point1 I have told her so many things and then told her not to tell her mom , she says she wont but then she turns around and does it anyway1 Then she tells me that she told her mom:ohmy: i tell her that she wasn't supose to tell but she says she doesn't care witch drives me yup the wall! Any tips on a untrustable friend1

[b]monkeys345 wrote:[/b] [quote]I have a friend that will remain nameless but thats not the point1 I have told her so many things and then told her not to tell her mom , she says she wont but then she turns around and does it anyway1 Then she tells me that she told her mom:ohmy: i tell her that she wasn't supose to tell but she says she doesn't care witch drives me yup the wall! Any tips on a untrustable friend1[/quote] hmmm...I'd say it depends on the situation. If it's just a "o, i like so-and-so...but don't tell ur ma" thing then the answer is simple-- don't tell her ur secrets! I have some friends that I can't trust w/that kinda stuff but I like to hang out w/. U just gotta figure out who to tell what. If it's a more serious topic, then it's possible she wasn't sure what to do so she asked her mom-- if that's the case, I think she's a great friend-- keep her!!! I've been in situations where things got ugly and I just HAD to tell someone who I could trust and get great advice from-- so yea, I've had to go to mommy sometimes. Hope this helps!

yeah, stop, sounds hard but trust me, i know that all girls need a friend to tell so,something to, and most people in this forum would just tell you to stop, but i am gonna take a different approach, stop for a little bit, and just stop telling her everything, write stuff on your walls that will make her wonder, next time she asks say" i don't trust you enough to tell you anymore" that oughtta stop her for a while, most girls go to there moms for everything, and she probbsbly has a really good realationship with her mom, and she needs to let it out, unless her mom tells someone about this then i really wouldn't care if she told her mom, my friend tells her mom everything, her mom knows more about me then my mom knows. the only part there that i would hate is that she iqs telling you that shetoldq,q its likle she wants you to get mad or something, i know i had alot of different points but choose the one you think is best, sorry if that didn't help at all.:(