My mom and me keep arugeing for the past month. I'm 17 and I feel like I'm 8. I mean it's over stupid stuff really. I want to move out of my house. She keeps drilling me about my grades and about insurance. I told her if insurance was going to be that much of a hassle then to take me off. But, she does nothing about it. She is a christian and goes to church. She acts all good in church then when she gets home starts cursing and everything else and tells me I should act better. I have a little brother that just turned 14 and When he does something to me He gets in no trouble not even yelled at but the minute I do something to him I get in trouble. I just want to know what you would do in my sitution. Please help: Aruged out

if problems come between you and your mom fight alot try talking about it with her or your little brother. maybe he or she will understand. maybe next time your brother is around your mom and you arent he could say something to her. or you could. well i hope you talk my advice. remember this as your motto a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do! best of luck, abbster805

Mothers and their teenage daughters fight. It seems to be unavoidable. Communication is the most important part of a healthy relationship. If you don't think you can express to your mom all that you stated in your message, try writing it down for her. When it's written, she can't interrupt you and emotions stay under control. Be sure to express yourself calmly, lovingly and gently. And most important pray about it first and ask God to help you in this situation. Equine gave you good advice to be the bigger person. Just remember your Heavenly Father knows exactly what you're going through and He will be there to listen, to comfort and protect.

[b]Crackup_com wrote:[/b] [quote]My mom and me keep arugeing for the past month. I'm 17 and I feel like I'm 8. I mean it's over stupid stuff really. I want to move out of my house. She keeps drilling me about my grades and about insurance. I told her if insurance was going to be that much of a hassle then to take me off. But, she does nothing about it. She is a christian and goes to church. She acts all good in church then when she gets home starts cursing and everything else and tells me I should act better. I have a little brother that just turned 14 and When he does something to me He gets in no trouble not even yelled at but the minute I do something to him I get in trouble. I just want to know what you would do in my sitution. Please help: Aruged out[/quote] Oh my gosh!!! I have the same situation!!!!! So I know exactly how you feel! My mother is the same way, and when my sister does something to me I get the blame always. My mother also cusses out of church! All you can do for your mother is pray pray pray!!!! And fasting never hurts just make sure you eat at least once!! ;) I'll keep ya in my prayers and keep me in yours too. I didn't think anyone had the same situation as I did. Just obey God and He will touch your mother's heart, in His time! And never quit shining the light around her, but let God lead you in that. When she starts the cussing and that just hold your peace. Pray for her. I'll be praying too. ~*Rebecca