i recently just got out of a 4 month relationship with the first guy i have ever really liked.. He seemed like the perfect guy and everything was going great!!.. but then he got way too busy to talk to me and for about 3 weeks he just didnt act right.. so one night i was talking to some of his friends and they told me that he had been cheating on me.. this had been going on about 3 weeks (around the time when he stopped talking to me) and when i confronted him about it he lied.. he looked me straight in the eye and told me that none of it was true.. and then he "came to get his watch back and break up" and i found out that he was with her the night we broke up too.. then i found out there was another girl he had been with too!!! I dont know if i am stupid for actually trusting him or i dont know what.. does any one have anything to say about this?? i kinda need some encouragement!!! thanks!!

Well, first of all, it's not your fualt. When I was in my first relationship, the guys cheated on me with three other girls! You just can't blame yourself for the fact that he does not realize what he's doing. And all this cheating is eventuly going to come back and bite him in the butt, who's going to marry a guy who they think is going to go cheat on them? And just think, now you can spend your time looking for the right guy:side:

well personally he's a jerk to do that and so r all the other guyz that think they can get away with that type of thing...i know what ur going thru...mii first last and only luv did that to meh...then asked meh out 2 other times after we broke up...(and yeah i was stupid enough to go back out with him...)but yeah i'm sry he did that to ya...just try to 4get...i no it's harder dun than said but....

yea well see the thing is.. his last girlfriend cheated on him and it like killed him.. he told me how hard it was on him.. and one time one of his friends was trying to mess with him and got me to send him some messages (nothing bad but just to confuse my bf) and he got really upset because it was just how it was with his last girlfriend and thats when he told me he couldnt take it as a joke because his last girlfriend had done it to him.. then the little dork went and did it to me!! guys can be so dumb sometimes!! lol i guess you just have to laugh at them.. but the thing is im not upset or anything i mean im ok with it all.. im glad that we broke up because nothing good was coming out of our relationship.. but it just makes me feel better talking about it!!

ur really lucky u found out when u did. i no if it was me i would be totally ticked off and plot my revenge. ur not stupid. u didn't ask him 2 cheat on u. don't feel bad .u just rid urself of a problem. he is stupid and doesn't deserve if he is like that. p.s instead of plotting revenge, pray 4 him.::evil:

That hurts, i've been there before so i know how it feels. Just remember that God is in control and he knows what he's doing. That guy was a jerk and you deserve a lot better than that fool has to offer you!;)