i know you should be faithful to the person you are dating, but i had a lapse of judgment. i was with one of my guy friends(who happens to be my ex) and i playfully kissed him. i felt extremely bad about it and thought that i should tell my bf, just to be honest with him. he kinda got pissed off, which i would expect. he nade thhe remark that if i still wanted to be with him (my ex) then i should go be with him. i don't want my ex, i want the guy i am with now. i am really scared that i have lost him, and i really don't wabt that. i really care about my boyfriend, and i just need to know what i should do. i can't stand the thouht of not having him. has any one else ever been in this situation. my bf said that i should have never told him, but i felt like i needed to. is it a bad thing that i was honest about messing up and asked for forgiveness?