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Swinny89
19 year(s) ago

i was just wondering what other people think about some things... cuz some people like date then break up cuz they say they were not the right one or whatever, but if they just base that on there feelings, then isnt that way off? so what i mean is, as long as there Christian, then anyone should be the right one right? i see it like, the easier the relationship, the less you learn through it. going through a relationship should teach us to love better right? so yea, those are just some of my thoughts. what do you think?

rizan-fenix
19 year(s) ago

There are some female christians at my church who, while I love them greatly, I would never be able to get along with in married life. Our faith is the same, but our minds are like oil and water.

Swinny89
19 year(s) ago

in the old days you just had to live with what you got.

stratacastle
19 year(s) ago

By that do you mean arranged marriages? From my point of view, everyone should have to live with what they get (ie. I don't believe in divorce), but I disagree with common relationships with Christ being the only thing necessary, like rizan_fenix said. That must be there and should be what we consider first, but common interests and goals, sometimes intellect and hobbies, are all important, as is physical appearance.

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