I have a boyfriend, and we are constantly texting. (Yes I'm not nessisarily at the appropriate age for a boyfriend. But my parents are fine with him, and we don't do anything! We don't even hold hands. So please no comments on how I'm too young)And Whenever he has to go do something other then text me, I feel lonely, and depressed. I'm trying not to, but I can't think of anything to do to get him off him. I really don't want to break up with him. He's soo sweet and nice, he is by far the best boyfriend I have ever had. (Yes, I've had more then one... Please no comments) Any suggestions I can do to get my mind off him? Love you all- Paapaa

You can read the bible! That usually works :]

Sounds like infactuation. Maybe try slow down on the texting, that may help you to focus on other things a little. You're thinking of breaking up with him? *stops herself before she starts a lecture* Pray, read your bible, go for a walk and appreciate this beautiful world God made, talk to us on here, start a thread that gets us talking and digging deeper, start a new hobby, go for a run. You need to find what is best for you, its not good to be thinking about a boy so much.

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Sounds like infactuation. Maybe try slow down on the texting, that may help you to focus on other things a little. You're thinking of breaking up with him? *stops herself before she starts a lecture* Pray, read your bible, go for a walk and appreciate this beautiful world God made, talk to us on here, start a thread that gets us talking and digging deeper, start a new hobby, go for a run. You need to find what is best for you, its not good to be thinking about a boy so much.[/quote] I completely agree.

[b]Illusenfan_5000 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Sounds like infactuation. Maybe try slow down on the texting, that may help you to focus on other things a little. You're thinking of breaking up with him? *stops herself before she starts a lecture* Pray, read your bible, go for a walk and appreciate this beautiful world God made, talk to us on here, start a thread that gets us talking and digging deeper, start a new hobby, go for a run. You need to find what is best for you, its not good to be thinking about a boy so much.[/quote] I completely agree.[/quote] ME 2!

Part of my worry is that he might be with another girl. In the back of my mind I know he would never do that, but I have been cheated on before... So I don't know. Also I just might be in the 'Honeymoon' phase with him. I sat on the hammok today and just thought. He is a boy. Only a boy. And from what I've heard from his friends, is that he really, really, really, likes me. I feel the same way. I'm just going to chill out and find something useful to do with my time. Pray? Read the Bible? Those are good pasttimes (pastimes? Thanks guys

[b]paapaa wrote:[/b] [quote]Part of my worry is that he might be with another girl. In the back of my mind I know he would never do that, but I have been cheated on before... So I don't know. Also I just might be in the 'Honeymoon' phase with him. I sat on the hammok today and just thought. He is a boy. Only a boy. And from what I've heard from his friends, is that he really, really, really, likes me. I feel the same way. I'm just going to chill out and find something useful to do with my time. Pray? Read the Bible? Those are good pasttimes (pastimes? Thanks guys[/quote] U shouldnt worry! i mean if he is a christian boy and he really likes u he wouldnt stray like that! if u really wanna know u could ask him but another think is that if u r in a true relationship u should be able to trust him and for him to trust u back.

Have you shared your insecurities with him? What do you mean by the 'honeymoon' phase? So he is 'only' a boy, there is nothing special about him? If there is nothing special about him then why do you like him? Why are you going out with him?

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Have you shared your insecurities with him? What do you mean by the 'honeymoon' phase? So he is 'only' a boy, there is nothing special about him? If there is nothing special about him then why do you like him? Why are you going out with him?[/quote] The Honeymoon Phase: All caught up in the relationship; not thinking about anything but the boyfriend/girlfriend. Oh everything is special about him. He is very Christian, and we are having our first date on Sunday! We are going to church together! I started watching movies (Veggie Tales) to get my mind off of him. Now instead of being depressed when he is NOT texting me, I look forward to the time when he will text me. And get on with my life until then.

Oh and no insucruities:)