Well. my problem is actually kind of simple, I just can't make up my mind on what to do. I am married and have been for 7 years, we have 3 daughters together. My husband is determained to try, just one more time, for a boy. I really want a little boy too. I am just kind of afraid that it will be another girl. I mean, DON'T TAKE ME WRONG, I love my girls and if we had another, I would love her just the same. I just really want a little boy. This is what I have my heart set on. This is what is stopping me from making the decision not to stop my birth control and try and become pregnant. This would be our last and final try for a boy. It sadens me that I am so scared to get pregnant, scared that we won't get our little boy. I want to have another baby so bad I can't stand it, but I have my heart set on a boy. This is just a way for me to vent my heart. I wouldn't know how to tell my husband this because he is so determained that if we get pregnant again, it will defineatly be a boy...lol...no defineates either way. I just had to get this off my chest. Thanks for reading and thanks in advance for any response. :dry:

Ok, she pretty much said it all! And, like some one else said, adoption is a very good choice. My little brother was adopted just in April of this year from China. Why did we choose China? Because their orphanage is like overflowing with the little girls that their parents so wished to be boys to carry on the family name and take care of them when they get older. So, they pretty much abandon the little girls like right after birth, hoping some one will find her soon. Yes, it is very rare that we got a boy. But the only reason is because he had a heart disease, and had surgery at like 3 months. Now, we went to the heart doctor and he said he didn't want to see my brother for another two years. There are a whole bunch of orphanages out their. Adoption is just one option of many. So, pray and ask God what you should do and just talk to him. After you talk, sit their and just listen. I'm not saying "You have to adopt!". I'm just elaborating on the adoption category. Hope your decision is a good one! God Bless! -Courtney :cheer: