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engagements?? HELP!!!

aav-jewel
19 year(s) ago

What do you do if your christian best friend is engaged to a non christian jerk? I don't know how to make her see it won't work and i hate the idea of being a bridesmaid when i'm so against them getting married. How can i help her so she doesn't get married, and then recieve heartbreak and or divorce?!

so-cdog
19 year(s) ago

I understand why you'd be upset. A close friend of my cousing married a non-Christian, and after two years of constant bickering, they got a divorce. It turned into a huge scandal. If I were you, I'd really be praying for her. Also, show her verses in the Bible that talk about the dangers of marrying a non-Christian (the whole unequally yoked thing). If she doesn't take the hint, I'm really sorry. I'll be praying for you.

horsechic1990
19 year(s) ago

[b]so_cdog wrote:[/b] [quote]I understand why you'd be upset. A close friend of my cousing married a non-Christian, and after two years of constant bickering, they got a divorce. It turned into a huge scandal. If I were you, I'd really be praying for her. Also, show her verses in the Bible that talk about the dangers of marrying a non-Christian (the whole unequally yoked thing). If she doesn't take the hint, I'm really sorry. I'll be praying for you.[/quote] Well said! That's most likely the exact same advice I would have given too!

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