For a while, I have felt like since no guys in shining armor are chasing after me right now, that must mean I'm not attractive to guys. I thought it meant I wasn't pretty or would never get a husband. Until finally, I was having my quiet time, and it dawned on me. No guys are chasing after me right now, but that's a good thing. See, the guys at my school are jerks. They are NOT, as my youth pastor's wife calls it, "sexy men of God." They are not guys I want to attract. So maybe, I'm repelling away the losers. I mean, what type of guy do I want to marry? Um...not the guys at my school! Our culture tells us that we need to have alot of guys to be chasing after us to be hot. Psh! How many guys are we going to marry? One. Not 20. I believe that God is slowly rebuilding our hearts everyday, and He's working on our future husband's, too! You are someone beautiful...in the making. And there is Someone who is chasing after you and will make you that way.

Post edited by: so_cdog, at: 2008/05/23 15:00

I needed that. :)

Thank you..! I really needed that....!:kiss:

Thank you so much for making this post!:)

thank you that really helped me!!!

[b]so_cdog wrote:[/b] [quote]For a while, I have felt like since no guys in shining armor are chasing after me right now, that must mean I'm not attractive to guys. I thought it meant I wasn't pretty or would never get a husband. Until finally, I was having my quiet time, and it dawned on me. No guys are chasing after me right now, but that's a good thing. See, the guys at my school are jerks. They are NOT, as my youth pastor's wife calls it, "sexy men of God." They are not guys I want to attract. So maybe, I'm repelling away the losers. I mean, what type of guy do I want to marry? Um...not the guys at my school! Our culture tells us that we need to have alot of guys to be chasing after us to be hot. Psh! How many guys are we going to marry? One. Not 20. I believe that God is slowly rebuilding our hearts everyday, and He's working on our future husband's, too! You are someone beautiful...in the making. And there is Someone who is chasing after you and will make you that way.<br><br>Post edited by: so_cdog, at: 2008/05/23 15:00[/quote] Amen, sweetie! :cheer: heh, sexy men of God, lol. I've never been popular with the guys (as the dating type) which is totally cool. Most of them just see me as a friend, good friend, or sister. Which again, is totally cool. lol. I do get lonely and frusterated sometimes and every now and then I ask God where's my manly man. But then I pray about it and relize that God isn't done sculpting me, yet. Imma stop rambling now :cheer:

[b]WeDanceNow wrote:[/b] [quote][b]so_cdog wrote:[/b] [quote]For a while, I have felt like since no guys in shining armor are chasing after me right now, that must mean I'm not attractive to guys. I thought it meant I wasn't pretty or would never get a husband. Until finally, I was having my quiet time, and it dawned on me. No guys are chasing after me right now, but that's a good thing. See, the guys at my school are jerks. They are NOT, as my youth pastor's wife calls it, "sexy men of God." They are not guys I want to attract. So maybe, I'm repelling away the losers. I mean, what type of guy do I want to marry? Um...not the guys at my school! Our culture tells us that we need to have alot of guys to be chasing after us to be hot. Psh! How many guys are we going to marry? One. Not 20. I believe that God is slowly rebuilding our hearts everyday, and He's working on our future husband's, too! You are someone beautiful...in the making. And there is Someone who is chasing after you and will make you that way.<br><br>Post edited by: so_cdog, at: 2008/05/23 15:00[/quote] Amen, sweetie! :cheer: heh, sexy men of God, lol. I've never been popular with the guys (as the dating type) which is totally cool. Most of them just see me as a friend, good friend, or sister. Which again, is totally cool. lol. I do get lonely and frusterated sometimes and every now and then I ask God where's my manly man. But then I pray about it and relize that God isn't done sculpting me, yet. Imma stop rambling now :cheer:[/quote] I'm glad this has encouraged y'all! This sounds so cheesy, but remember, it says in the Bible that the King is enthralled by your beauty! I know what that's like. There is a really HOT guy in my life who I've kinda had an on-off crush for two years. This year, I really thought we might have a chance, until I realized that we were more like brother/sister. He's a great guy, and God says that with Him, I'm a great girl! We just aren't meant to be. But someday, I will catch a guy's eye...only because I caught Someone else's eye first. :)