First of all, I had liked my best guy friend. Well, telling him that I liked him was a great mistake of mine; it made everything awkward. But then I told him that I liked a guy I didn't even like or know, and now I'm actually starting to. It's great now that I can talk to him without feeling awkward, but I don't feel right about like this other guy, I do not know why. Then my best guy friend told me that another girl liked the guy I like, and I'm not happy about it.

Before I give advice, I want to know how old you are. I can't give good advice without that information.

I'm 12.

Then do nothing. You're too young to be progressing this into a relationship. Stay friends with these people and work on yourself and your relationship with God. And the honest truth: Your hormones are raging right now. That's what's causing you to like these boys. Now isn't a time when you can be emotionally stable enough to go through it. Trust me, I'm 15. When I was your age, I had... "boyfriends", I guess is what you could say, but I regret it now. And for you older people: Yes, I admitted it. I was one of THOSE people before I came here. :P EDIT: You also might want to read this. http://www.mypraize.com/index.php?option=com_fireboard&Itemid=214&func=view&id=396149&catid=3

o.O Oh wow. I must hear about this some time. And I will share my story too. :P

I'm not stupid, and I didn't say you called me that. But, I understand way more than I should. WAY more.

That may be the case. A lot of people do. I did. But that still doesn't change the fact that you have the raging hormones of an adolescent, which cause unsettled emotions. Just trust me on this. You'll regret it later if you pursue anything further.

[b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote]That may be the case. A lot of people do. I did. But that still doesn't change the fact that you have the raging hormones of an adolescent, which cause unsettled emotions. Just trust me on this. You'll regret it later if you pursue anything further.[/quote] I have to admit, you're right. I probably shouldn't be getting into this. It's just [b]so[/b] irritating! I [u]want[/u] a boyfriend, (someone who I can relate with and be happy with) but it's just the fact that at my church and school, if you like someone, it automatically means you should "ask them out", which I think is [i]completely[/i] out of my grade's league.

^what Bethany said. And I know you want a boyfriend, and that's all fine. It's fine to [i]want[/i] a boyfriend, but you don't [i]need[/i] one. I want lots of things that I don't particularly need.

[b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote]^what Bethany said. And I know you want a boyfriend, and that's all fine. It's fine to [i]want[/i] a boyfriend, but you don't [i]need[/i] one. I want lots of things that I don't particularly need.[/quote] Thank-you!!! My point exactly. @HannahNoBanana I forced myself into liking a guy.