1)well my fbff (former best friend forever) taylor has been acting like a b**** lately and she dates like there is no tomorrow. she definitely doesnt have the best examples. her mom is currently in her 3rd marriage and from wat i can see this one is not going well.Taylor acts dumb around guys and i dont mean like she cant think of anything to say i mean like she trips and does dumb blonde things. for some reason it works. i am afraid that the only reason guys date her for that reason is b/c she is and acts like a blonde so they think that they can get anything out of her. including sex. plssssssssssssssss help and pray. 2)my other fbff (yes i realize i have a lot of these but it is b/c i want good friends who wont put a bad influence on my life like these guys) anyways my other fbff paxton is becoming a lot like her. but she is extremely insecure. she is 12 also. she has already said that someday she will comit suicide. (i hope it is obvious y i am her fbff) and her mom said o its no big deal. to me that is bad parenting. yes i am taking a HUGE risk about posting it b/c BOTH of them have a mypraize so as far as i know they dont look at the forums so ya. thnx. 3)they both also think that i am trying to break up their friendship and i am NOT!!!! *tear*

Post edited by: bagirl1234, at: 2007/09/29 14:34

1) Pray. When a girl is dating like crazy, generally it is to fill in some 'empty spaces' that only God can fill. If her mother really is on her third marriage, then she probably upset over her fathers(s) absence(s). As for the acting blond, I see that as no reason to end the friendship... I think that if it really came to sex, she would draw the line. Hopefully she has some standards, and wouldn't go that far.(don't forget to pray.) 2) Always always always pray. Prayer cannot hurt ANYTHING... If she is insecure, she probably needs/wants a friend. When girls do not have friends to turn to, they turn to boys and other things. That's why every girl should have a best friend (or at least an extremely good friend). If she is saying that she will commit suicide, it was either in anger, or a cry for attention. If she really means it, I would do just what lil-rush said... tell someone. I hope I don't sound like, vain or that I think I know everything about people, I just have been there, done that, and I've seen stuff like this happen before. I know what it's like to be in need of a friend... and how wonderful it is once you've found one. Just be their friends, softly nudge on their hearts... don't preach, just point things out gently, and humbly. If these girls are Christians, then they may pick up they're relationship with Christ again, and if they're not, they Will (hopefully) begin one. God bless and don't forget to PRAY!!

WOW!!!! have u guys been praying for me cuz i have and it has WORKED! im so happy. she actually started dating someone she really likes. and i mean this is somethin she has never really done before (sadly) but still. she started going out with this guy named dalton. she called me and said "omg karis ever since i've gone out with him i really really like him. like i get all nervous aroud him and i get butterflies in my stomach and everything." so im all thinkin YES the curse is over! so im sooooo happy so thanks guys