Okay, so I'll set down the situation. I like this guy named Josh and have on and off since I was about 5 or 6. [I'm 14 now] He's never told me if he likes me back or not because I've never asked. I think that the guy should make the first move, and since I'm a girl, I don't want to make the first move. And now the second part of the dilemma: We used to go to the same youth group, and then that church went downhill, and became really small and just left behind everything that they used to be. So now I don't even get to see him and I realized that I have to let go my feelings for him because I can't wait for forever. I've been trying to get over him for over 2 months. Sometimes I have good days where I don't even think about him really, but other days he's all I can think of and I get this horrible pain in my heart like something's being torn from me. Sometimes it puts me to the point of crying, and I'm tired of it. How do I get over him quicker?

Even though you don't see him, I still think it's okay to like him. I know it's tough to have a crush on someone and not being sure if they like you back, but you're doing the right thing by letting him take the first move. However, if you still want to give up on him, I guess time will heal. Usually, when I'm upset about something, the hurt eventually fades over time.

let go as soon as possible. i liked my friend for a few months and i saw that it wouldnt work out and i was just waising my time. i still get jelous sometimes when i see him with his girlfriend but, if you are trying to let go of him now, do it ASAP! if you just keep thinking the 'what ifs' about him, you're just going to keep liking him. so, throw away any rememberance of him and take a different hobby to meet other guys and might start other relationships good luck and God bless *Chelsea

Ok well me and this guy named Matt Collins were going out. My mom doesn`t like me holding boys hand. So we got caught holding hands and making out in the church. So my mom broke us up. He wants to go out with me secretely but I don`t know what to do. If u have any advise for me go to my page and write on my wall. Thanks A Ton. ~pinkrocks~

Yeah, I'm trying to get rid of the what-ifs, but it's hard since we've flirted on and off for a long time. I just really want to hear it from his mouth whether he likes me or not. I think it would give me a little bit of closure, but then again I don't want to put him in an uncomfortable position. :