hey girls im a guy and im sorry that im here but i need some help theres this girl i realy like ...but shes also my best freind i want to tell her but if things come out worse for me my friendship is wrecked any advice?

Ok honestly why didnt you post this on the main forum, i mean this forum is suppose to be private:). But i forgive you. Alright first of all if you are older than 17 or 16 i can understand dating but if you are younger it is pointless to date, I would suggest just being her friend and maybe someday when you are emotionally ready i would ask her out but for now i would just stay friends and still admire her;) . I hope this helps i am not that good at giving advice.

2 words... [size=5] Open Forum! :angry: [/size] Go there and I'll give my opinion. Have a nice day. :P

[b]Ignition wrote:[/b] [quote]hey girls im a guy and im sorry that im here but i need some help theres this girl i realy like ...but shes also my best freind i want to tell her but if things come out worse for me my friendship is wrecked any advice?[/quote] WHAT THE FLIPPING CHEESEPUFF?! DUDE! There is a GUYS FORUM HERE, IF YOU NEED LOVE HELP, GO ASK THERE! ... :angry:

i think you should go for it tell her how you feel dont be afraid to show your feelings girl like when guys shar or show ther feelings i think guys eho shw there fellings are cool dont be afriad to be your self. from a girl who cares from allyce known as girlgirl100 thats me

[b]Ignition wrote:[/b] [quote]hey girls im a guy and im sorry that im here but i need some help theres this girl i realy like ...but shes also my best freind i want to tell her but if things come out worse for me my friendship is wrecked any advice?[/quote] hey, dont worry about it.girls go on the guys fourms to. i think the bestthing you could do is tell her how you feel or drop little hints that you like her and then tell her [it is a lot easyer for her and softens things for her aswell]. and if she tearts you wierdly or she makes fun of you for it then she's someone not worth your time. BUT GO FOR IT! YOU CAN DO IT!!;)

What would you rather have: a great friendship, or possibly ruin that friendship for the 'thrill' of having a girlfriend? people say that after you are going out, you can't go back to friends. It's just too awkward. I've never been in that situation, but I trust my sources. please don't ruin a beautiful friendship. friendship is unique, it takes years to define, moments to destroy. It can be the most blessed thing in the world, and the most annoying. It's something that people can't live without. I beg yo to pray about it. I know what I say will probably not have an affect, but I think that to many friendships are ruined this way, and they shouldn't be. and as for posting on the girl thread, I'll forgive you this once :P

I will not grace you will my great advice. Get the PB&J OUT!

[b]Ignition wrote:[/b] [quote]hey girls im a guy and im sorry that im here but i need some help theres this girl i realy like ...but shes also my best freind i want to tell her but if things come out worse for me my friendship is wrecked any advice?[/quote] well i have had a really good guy friend, who i would have loved to ask me out. but thus he never did, and we grew apart. he met other girls and i met other guys, we're still friends, but its weird now. because i liked him, and he may have even liked me, but because he was afraid to ask me. its never going to be the same. i say you should give it a shot.

[b]Ignition wrote:[/b] [quote]hey girls im a guy and im sorry that im here but i need some help theres this girl i realy like ...but shes also my best freind i want to tell her but if things come out worse for me my friendship is wrecked any advice?[/quote] lots of guys have this problem, i say is just stay friends and maybe she will say that she likes u and u will live happly ever affter...idk, my advice is just be a great friend!:woohoo:good luck! and next time it wouldn't hert to post in the open discusion:whistle: :whistle: