Ok, so here is the deal..I have an amazing friend named Solomon. He's always looking out for me and won't even let me consider dating a guy until he has talked to him, which is ok with me because I have had some pretty sucky relationships. The more I learn about him the more I feel like he is the one. We have so much in common..like everything. I have tried telling him my feelings, but I don't think he get it. I think we're meant to be and even if we're not, that's fine. I'm falling in love with him though. Please Help!

hi! well i guess you could try telling him again. I mean if u don't, then u just let it go by, and never kno wat might have been. right? and don't worry about him "not geting it" lol i don't understand guys in the least, why should they understand us? He just may not have gotton the way u were saying it, (no offense of course) =) So try it again! or again, u could not try, and never kno, where it will bug u 4ever. lol so good luck!

My first suggestion is to think about why you would want a relationship with him. Can you see yourself marrying him down the road, and if so, why would you want to marry him? Why do you want to get married at all? I know these probably seem like cold questions, but these are actually questions from a relationship/premarital counseling book I read, and I think they really help put things into perspective. It's not to scare you or anything. In fact, in my case anyway, it made me even happier to be in the relationship I'm in. If you are able to answer these questions in ways that satisfy you and in ways that you believe glorify and satisfy God, wonderful! As to what to do, I suggest just taking things slow. Follow God's leading, and don't try to push things to hard. It's tough not to be impatient, I know. Give Solomon some encouragement, and he might get the point. Guys tend to not get our hints, though, so in time you might have to spell things out for him more clearly. For now, pray and wait. It's wonderful to be pursued, so give him some time to do that on his own. God bless!

You could try to talk with him alone like without anybody else around. Then tell him how you feel and maybe you guys could try going out.:blush:

Yeah, my friend Em and I have been talking about stuff like this lately. We both have friends who... well, how should I say it? They're just boys!!! They both love God, but some of their actions are kind of hard to understand, and... Anyway, I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY have to agree with the girl who told you to guard your heart!!!!!!!!!!! Satan will use your heart to bend your will toward his--and we don't want that 'cause he's EVIL!!! I know, I know; it sounds next to impossible to guard your heart against someone you really care about--I know! But, and I will repeat everyone else, again, you should pray. Like Emily always says "PUSH: Pray Until Something Happens". But be forewarned: it could be a very LONG time before anything happens. So be patient; God's timing and plan are so far above us!!! I wish there was something I could do to encourage you more, but I will pray for you!! I understand--somewhat--how you feel, but remember: Jesus understands PERFECTLY!!!! :) God bless you!!! He loves you; just wait for His timing! Ashley

[b]Twiggymcfluff089 wrote:[/b] [quote] The more I learn about him the more I feel like he is the one.[/quote] well chances are if he feels the same way, he will tell you if you and him should be together...remember true love waits. keep it pure god bless