Ok, i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and i think i really love him but the thing is he moved to Flordia and i only get to talk to him over the computer and stuff like that and i reallllly miss him but at school theres this guy that takes my interest, i've been friends with him for 2 or 3 years now and all my friends have always told me that he likes me but i guess i just ignored it. But recently, i've been thinking about him a lot, at first i thought it was because he reminded me of one of my best guy friends that had to move away but now im not so sure. Every time we go somewhere{me and my friends}, i always hope he comes with us and if he doe's i hope i get to be with him . . . . . im sooo confused!!!!:pinch: :dry: :blink: :( Could you help?

Just wondering....What are your plans with your boyfriend? He moved to FL - thats a long ways away from you. Are you guys going to stay attached for the next 8 years - until you get through highschool and college and then move to the same state and get married? No? Then why would you "commit yourself" to a guy you'll not likely see much of (if at all). You're only 14 - you don't need to attach yourself to a guy but instead have fun growing up. I know you're on the threshold of adulthood but the next 8 years will prove to be an amazing ride. You and your friends will go through many changes - you'll define the type of person you are by the choices you make. My advice - stay single. Go out with guys and girls in groups and have tons of fun. The dating will come later when you're ready to look for a spouse.

I agree with CaraS. You're young, and believe me, you will be changing so much in the next several years. You have plenty of time ahead of you. Also, just judging from my personal experience, if you honestly feel like it's a toss up between these two guys, most likely neither of them are the right one. I know this can be really aggravating to hear, but when the right guy is there you'll just know! Some indecision is very normal, but I think it will be a little more obvious to you than this. Just my opinion. ;) I hope that helps!

hey kelso i think i know who your talking about {anthony?} and at my cross country meet he wanted to to come soooooooooo bad. and was really sad that you did'nt but if you feel this way maybe you need to talk to him and tier and find out how he really thinks about you?

sry he wanted you to come*