I have this guy friend and he and I are really close. But, I will never date him. Well, today I found out he likes me and it's really wierd. What should I do? Help!

I would suggest u go 2 God about this issue! He can give u wisdom on which way 2 go after all he knows best! Don't rush the decision, just think and meditate on it 4 a while! Then, if u feel like it's the right decision, go 4 it! No 1 is saying u have 2 date him because he likes u or vice-versa! God will let u know but u gotta ask him!:)

[b]lynsielou wrote:[/b] [quote]I have this guy friend and he and I are really close. But, I will never date him. Well, today I found out he likes me and it's really wierd. What should I do? Help![/quote] I was in that same kind of situation last year, so I know how you feel. One of my best guy friends (he's a Christian too, btw) liked me a lot last year and he would always go to the library before school looking for me (I would hang out there a lot). He basically told me he liked me then I heard of plans of how he was "going to kiss me in time." That kinda creeped me out and it took me a while to pluck up enough courage to tell him how I really felt, 'cause I didn't feel the same way about him and I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Eventually I just e-mailed him how I felt (I made sure I was nice about it too) and he e-mailed me back and told me he understood and he even has a girlfriend now. Anyways, what I would do if I were you is definately pray like leader4christ suggested, and if you don't feel led to date him, then don't do it! At that point, let him know how you feel in a nice way through means like in person (without a lot of other people around), on the phone, or through e-mail. Don't do it through IM or through texting, 'cause that is shallow and it could be someone else answering you back instead of him. Let us know how things go!

Well, here is what happend. He and I are like really close friends. There have been many rumors going around saying that I liked him or we were dating or him and I made out. Well today I was IMing with him and keep kept talking about love. Then, he told me he had something to tell me and he told me he likes me. He told me not to tell a soul. (I feel like I needed to talk to someone though.) I told him I don't want to date right now. He was like ok. Well, then I got to thinking. If he likes me like he says he does then why doesn't he want anyone to know? Is it because like I not cool enough to be with him around his friends? I don't know. Now, because I said no, I feel like we won't have the same relationship like we used to. I don't know what to do?