Guys my age dont seem to like me, but my crush is older than me and i think he might have a crush on me too. but the problem is he's going to college....ON MY BIRTHDAY! what should i do?

When your a little older the age difference wont be an issue.. but trust me from experience it will be an issue... maybe not with you to but your parents ... his parents... friends.. the problem here is he is in a different stage in his life then you and though you are both mature you should prolly hold off.. if its love or meant to be you have to wait. Now believe me i know that is easier said then done.. i have an two year age difference and i still get his parents all upset about it. but truely love waits and endures all things. Charis

[color=#008000][/color]well, i know it may seem awkward, but maybe it's God's way of telling you that it's just not the right time in your life yet....or if it is....it just may not be the right time in his life. and the age difference won't matter as much later on in life, but right now is does seem like a bit of a jump. [color=#000080][/color]God bless.

tell him you love him duhh!!! lol!!!! just tell him how you feel:laugh:

I ha this problem too, only in much wose circumstances. My curren husband is 11 years older than me. It is viewed as wrong in todays american society, but we didn't care. My mom signed the papers when I pomised her I'd get a diploma and I did, so there!!! haha. But if it's right with God, then it's righ by me. God meant for me and my husband to be together and I know this because we went through some REALLY REALLY hard times and we've prevailed. I was 16 when I got married and now it's only been a couple of months. just make sure that if you want to date, that your parents KNOW him and make sure that their daughter's purity is staying in tact. I hope this helped you!! God bless.

Don't be so stressed about it your only 14 God has a man out there that is going to treat you right!!! he knows you better than you know yourself, he CREATED YOU!!! he loves you as his own child...so don't stress your Daddy's got your back!!!! i'll keep you in my prayers! be strong and run after him with all you have...:P

Right, chicka - don't worry about it. You're young (and don't take offense at that, because I'm not saying that young is bad or doesn't count ;) ). Enjoy this time in your life when you don't have much stress on you (even if it doesn't seem like you don't). Keep in touch with him as a friend and make and keep friends - life is very lonely without them. God will lead you where He wants you, but like with all of us, He has a lot of work to do. He'll bring the guy for you into your life when you're ready, and He definitely will know when you're ready even if you don't.

I agree with everyone who said that 14 is kinda young to have a boyfriend (no offense or anything), at least one who is going into college. It would be a risk for me to date a college guy (I'm 16), 'cause of the age difference. Even if that guy loves the Lord, he is a lot more mature than you and more likely to pressure you to do things you don't wanna do than a guy more your age would do (not that he would do anything like that). I think for safety reasons, you should stick with guys that are no more than a year or two older than you until you get to be about maybe 17 or so. He does sound like a good guy though, so you should tell him how you feel, but don't expect a dating relationship to come from it, 'cause he may just want to date people about his own age. Let us know how things go!

yup. no wut THATs like. well it depeds how fr away he is and if HES willin to work a relationship from there. and if YOUre willin as well. but i kno the problem...where older guys are alot more interested then guys ur age. i think its the whole maturity issue. wut do u think? *bri*

[b]MEGAFREAK3000 wrote:[/b] [quote]Don't be so stressed about it your only 14 God has a man out there that is going to treat you right!!! he knows you better than you know yourself, he CREATED YOU!!! he loves you as his own child...so don't stress your Daddy's got your back!!!! i'll keep you in my prayers! be strong and run after him with all you have...:P[/quote] I've gotta aggree w/the above said. I've got the same trouble hoppinfroggy, I've only had 1 guy tell me that he likes me, and none of the others appear to care, but hey, that's ok, cause Jesus' romance is better than anything any guy can offer. ;) Trust me! :)