Well I just felt that I had a huge weight taken off my sholders! I used to like this guy that is 5 years older than me and plus he had a girlfriend. Now I like a guy who is 1 year older. He is so sweet! We actually talk too. He respects girls a lot and he is a good Christian. My friend and I stayed up talking to him for like an hour and a half and pretty close to two hours. We basicly talked about nothing..... we were just talking because we were all bored. He was on MySpace and all hyper. I liked it too. Ever since I started liking him I have felt really happy and I feel like this could possibly be my first boyfriend. He also makes me laugh when I am upset and even when i'm not. I also have felt giddy all weekend and can't stop thinking about the possibilities. I just feel safe about liking him.... like I don't have to have all this weight on my sholders. Has anyone ever felt this way? Comments about the guy are wanted too....... ;)

yea and it means u have found someone u really care about. good luckwith ur man !:cheer:

Thanks yall! I feel really confident about this whole thing. I love it!

it's good to feel confident and to be stable with whatever relationship with this guy at the moment that you may have. devin and i are really stable and i'm, i guess, still in the process of being able to trust my friend, SB, around him when i'm not there. but i'm making it through, and i'm trying not to worry about it so much, and just to enjoy the times that i'm with him, SB or not. lol, just be happy with him in everyway possible, you'll like it. just go for him already! :silly: ~ <3 ~ ansley

Well here are some updates...... So.... I just found out the other night that he doesn't like me that way. My friend (his ex) was talking to him the other night on MySpace and she said "I have the perfect girlfriend for you." The first time he guessed wrong but then she said my anitials. He was just like "Aly? I think she is cool and nice but I don't like her that way." So..... yeah. *sigh* He is a guy worth waiting for. And get this. We were playing baseball with people from church yesterday and he was there. He came up to me and said "Christa said that we should go out because we would make a cute couple." I looked at him with a questioning look on my face and said "Okay...." He then said "Yeah. I told her that I thought you were cool and all but I just didn't like you that way" His friend butted in and said "You would make a cute couple. And that's not what you tell me in your dreams." I was just like OH MI GOSH! Then later on I offered him a piece of gum and he took it from me with his mouth! It was weird! So..... is that a he does like me, he might like me, or maybe in time could like me? Just wanting you all's opinons. Plus he is a guy TOTALY worth waiting for.

well, now im not so sure. if he can't see NOW that you're a good girl and that you're really fun and stuff to be with, then maybe you should play hard to get when he DOES come around? just a suggestion... ~ <3 ~ ansley

hmmm this sounds like a typical "middle school crush" [i'm not saying your in middle school i'm just saying that's what it's called] girl likes guy..guy likes girl but the guy doesn't think you like him back. chances are he really does like you but he doesn't think you like him. guys are very confusing about those kind of things. he said he didn't like you..but he acts like he does. i say you talk to your friend about talking to his friends. alies are great in the love battlefield. so let your friend talk to his friend NOT HIM his friend and then have her tell you what he says lol it's that simple. also is there anything that might cause a problem from yall going out? example. beliefs, parents, race,?

No! He is the guy my parents want me to go out with. He did my voicemail on my phone today. It was funny. I gave him like a jolly rancher, three pieces of gum, and fruit snacks today! He is great! I am going to get his friend to ask him. But apparently when he is sleeping he talks about me......