i dont know wut to do look at my sight and ull see that i dont believe in sex before marage but just recently satan made me doubt that... i dont know who i was... i was hurt and i thought it would make it better... i dont want to have sex ever again i didnt even want to when i was... now im sad and depressed and i really dont know how god can possibly forgive me... i know some of you are going to condem u and yell at me but mabie just mabie someone has some advice...

I'm not going to condemn you. You're doing that to yourself enough it sounds like. I won't pretend what you did wasn't wrong (you know it was), but our God is a God of forgiveness and love. You gave away something that you can't get back now, and I can't imagine how much that hurts. However, you [i]can[/i] recommit to purity. God gave us sexual intimacy as a beautiful gift between husband and wife. From now on, wait until then. In that context it is not wrong, it is not dirty. God had forgiven you. Your part now is to wait until the time God intended you to have sex, inside a marriage relationship.

sometimes Satan:evil: whispers words like "Sex is alright before marriage". or "Everyone else is having sex with their boyfriends, why not you?". Its not your fault, your fault would come if you listened to those words that satan put inside your head. Pray to God, ask Him to help you with these thought, get out the concordance and read every verse about saving sex before marriage. It is God's for marriage to come before you get involed sexually. It states this clearly in the bible. Just ask God For His help, and it will come, most definetly.

sometimes Satan:evil: whispers words like "Sex is alright before marriage". or "Everyone else is having sex with their boyfriends, why not you?". Its not your fault, your fault would come if you listened to those words that satan put inside your head. Pray to God, ask Him to help you with these thought, get out the concordance and read every verse about saving sex before marriage. It is God's for marriage to come before you get involed sexually. It states this clearly in the bible. Just ask God For His help, and it will come, most definetly.

Broken, The thing for you to do now is to confess and repent. To confess means to admit your actions were sins - to repent means to turn away from them, not to repeat them again. God assures us of fogiveness when we confess and repent. Also, you have just exposed yourself to the possibility of pregnancy and sexually tranmitted disease so be careful with your health. If you notice any changes in your body that concern you, see a doctor right away.

You know, I must say that for as many people that believe in abstinence, they don't realize that most of them have already crossed that line. The Bible says if you think it, you've done it. But the bright side to this is that God is not only a God of forgiveness but a God of restoration. While you have lost something that you can never get back, you can recommit your purity to God. It will take a while and a lot of faith, but remember that you are forgiven, and don't give up. God can make your heart and your mind pure again if you let Him.

You may want to see a doctor sooner than wait till later, the possibilities of diseases and pregnancy should be found out earlier than later. I would recommend seeing your doctor soon. I'm sorry to hear you broke the promise you made to yourself, but there is nothing you can do now except move on and do your best to walk with God, read your bible and go to church regularly, commit yourself to him again. And i would stay away from boys for a while until you feel right with GOd again. By the way, do your parents know yet?

no i dont know how to tell them... im scared... i know im not pregnat because he didnt well u know... it was the most horrible expience in my life... and i truely am hating myself for it... see i broke up with my bf wich i never did anything with and in a wierd way i thought that me doing that would justify him cheeting on me and make me not hurt as much... but u know wut i hurt worse now than i ever did before...

hey I dont know how do comfort u but God has forgiven u! and I'll pray for u

Keep praying about it but i would highly recommend coming clean with your parents, the sooner the better, then they can take you to a doctor. Even if you aren't pregnant you should get checked for possible STD's. But thats with the assumption that you have a good relationship with your parents.