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treasureluvers

19 year(s) ago

One of my close friends is having issues. her mom is a compulsive drinker. and her dad lives in arizona and has liver failure. she blames it on God and is going emo (pretty much) she practically lives at her boyfriends house and they've done quite alot together. i've told her to like talk 2 her pastor and stuff but she blames God and herself! wat do i do?!?!?!?:unsure:

stratacastle

19 year(s) ago

That's an extremely difficult situation. First and foremost, pray for her. I know everyone will tell you that, and it seems cliche and like the "least thing we can do" but it really is our most powerful weapon against evil and struggles. Also, how involved in church was your friend before she began to blame God for her life situations, or has she always blamed God? If it's something she has always done, it could be her escape from having to "deal with God". I suggest talking with your pastor and youth pastor, especially if they are in the same area/city as your friend. They have better training and experience than I do in this situation, so I would ask them for advice as well. I'll be praying for her.

pookalie59

19 year(s) ago

...all I can do is suggest that you pray for her and with her every chance you get. Pray that the good Lord softens her heart where He is concerned. Right now the Devil is having a field day with her and all her hatred and negativity. Pray Pray Pray!!!

kacie

19 year(s) ago

well your being an awesome friend to get her to god atleast pat ur self on the back for that!! and like send me a friends request to :)

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