I was hoping you all could help me with a couple of things. The first thing has to do with something I've already posted about on here before. Here is the link for it: http://www.mypraize.com/option,com_joomlaboard/Itemid,187/func,view/id,21776/catid,10/ It is about the guy that I wasn't sure if I should call or not. Anyways, I texted him a little bit before Thanksgiving and asked him if he had gone to church that day or not (it was the Sunday before Thanksgiving) and he said that he had gone to church. However, I can't help thinking about his salvation and wondering if he is really "saved" or not (not everyone who goes to church is saved). I think about that quite often actually. Do you think that is God telling me to confront him about it? What should I do about it? The second topic is harder to talk about. I just found out today that a friend of mine is lesbian and it was somewhat shocking, although I didn't freak out when I found out about it. I don't want her to be lesbian of course, but I basically accepted it. She goes to a Catholic church and is looking for a "girlfriend." What should I do? Should I just leave things alone or should I confront her about it? What should I say? Her parents are already not receptive to her orientation, so I don't want to hurt her more by ofending her. What should I do? Thanks for your help! horsechic1990

the best thing to do in my opinion is just wait.....i mean ur not plannin on dyin anytime soon are u? sooo jus wait...pray....put it in God's hands and jus wait.... he knows and wants wats best for u...theres no need to rush into anythin.... i hope this helps..... secondly i believe that being gay is a sin..... and all i can tell u is to be there for her...let her kno where u stand (in a nice way of course) and pray for her..... God knows wats best for her too.... and he loves her more than we could ever imagine.... jus be a good friend show her God's love! thats all i kno to say on this topic...and again i hope this helps......

Ok, 1st one- I personally think, if you're thinking about it this much, I think God is trying to tell you something. You should pray and ask him for help. Then go to this guy and just talk to him, start a conversation and eeze into the topic about his salvation, where he stands on the bible and sin, and if he really understands most of the things being taught to him. But most of all, like I said, Pray and ask God to help you. 2nd- You're friend being a lesbian...wow, i would be a bit shocked too if I found out one of my friends was a lebian. The bible says that thats a sin...period. You should try to talk to her a little bit. When you're talking, sneak little things in there that might get her to think. Keep being her friend, pray, and just try to get her on the right track. God Bless Candy P.s. Have you ever heard of Way of The Master?