I don't believe in long distance relationships and this guy asked me out and i said no bc he doesnt live in this state. do you agree with me?:blush:

[b]Tori_Rebecca wrote:[/b] [quote]I don't believe in long distance relationships and this guy asked me out and i said no bc he doesnt live in this state. do you agree with me?:blush:[/quote] Yeah, I agree with you. Long distance relationships can be confusing. And you also can never be sure if the person is cheating on you or not.

yea i think u made the right move becasue there is really no sence in dating somebody far away becasue u will never get to see them and u mgiht never be able to trust them

Long distance relationships can only last if you two trust each other and have faith in each other. And a phone service that doesn't bill long distance or webcam conversations also help. ;) If you were willing to hold up with the above, I say why not. If there's mutual attraction, and lots and lots of faith and trust, I do believe it can work. But, at the very beginning of the sentence, you said you don't believe in long distance relationships. Which means you don't really want to be with this boy, as he lives far far away. WHich means, you did the right thing, by sticking up for and to your beliefs.

Well, in this kind of sit. u have to just follow your heart. if you really believe that he wont cheat on you, and you KNOW that he is a strong willing Christian, and that he REALLY wants you.. then... yea, you should say yes, but if things dont work out, let him know that you still like him, but say its just not gonna work out. Let him down GENTLY though.... guys have feelings too. hope the advice works. Love you, bentlie and alex

Thanks you guys maybe i might but he dont have any pictures and if my mamaw catches me dating another race ill be sooo banned from here!

Shure I agree with you. I also agree with you that long distance relationships have no use, unless you knew you would see eachother often and you could trust him. Think if you said yes... you would be thinking about what you could do if you were face-to-face. Or if someone who you do see every day did ask you out you would almost be obliged to say 'no' since you were with someone else! I think you made the right decision, and if later on you think you made the wrong decision... there are plenty more fish in the sea.:)