have a problem! ok so i like this guy and i am following what my praents would want me to because i know he is christian but the thing is that he is older than me and i like him a lot and i have known him for a while. sometimes he acts like he likes me but then other times he ignore me or makes fun of me. i am not sure what to do because i see him like everyday and i always think about him please help becacuse i am already mad at one of my friends because she was suppossed to be one of my best friends and she told my crush that i liked him!!! i am so confused! i would talk to my pastor but i am afraid he would talk to my mom about it and then i could talk to my other pastor but he jokes around so much i am not sure if he would take something so small very seriously!!!! ugh!!!!!! why? is this happening to me!

Well, if he's older, first off, then that's just a big no no, in my opinion. There's a difference in maturity, and that makes these kinds of relationships hard to make work, so it's better not to try. And your other pastor? So he likes to joke? All comedians know when to be serious.If he doesn't take you seriously, then I think there's a problem.

well i think it depends on how much older than he is than you one year is ok, i think, but three, no way!! I have an older brother(three years) and I see how he is and he doesn't think the classic middle school crush were you hold hands and go prancing around saying he's mt boyfriend. Lots of people at the MIddle School are like you get a boyfriend you get your first kiss :sick: