[b][size=4][/size][color=#0000FF][/color]I need help i like this guy and he is my next door naighbor and we are realy close and we tell echother every thing and he has a girl friend and like i tell my self u cant flirt with him cuz he has a gf but than it says well shes not here but i just dont know wat to do and he is so cute and i dont know wat to do but he thinks i dont like him but every time i am rideing my golf cart around he watches me through the window and we watch moves toghether and wen there is a love moment in the movie he looks @ me and i stare @ the tv and it is just so hard help plezz help!!!!

i dont know what to say honey. i would probably not consider him right now, wait till he breaks up with her or something..i dont know

Honey, this is just a crush, and that is all it will ever be - for as long as he has a girlfriend. As long he is taken, you must disregard every "look of love" in his eye. You must see him only as a friend - a near and dear one, it appears - but no more than a friend. You appear to be quite friendly with him, which only encourages friendship. (Which is all I recommend at this point) If he and his girlfriend happen to break up, then you may begin to think about having a relationship with him. But be careful and wise, and seek G-d's counsel - through His Word and through prayer - before you seek a relationship. Because, and particularily at this age, relationships are a muddled thing.