[b]Ok so this boy and I use to go out but, we broke up like a year ago and now he told me that he also like his other ex girlfriend he said that he is aloud to go out again but he said a he trying to decide between me and her. But I still like him!That is great and everything but there is another boy i like but he is not a Christian. If this one boy says he wants to go out with me what do you girls think I should do? Should I say yes to my ex that is a Christian or take my chance with the none Christian? PLease I need advice.:oh my: Post edited by: eegf2001, at: 2008/01/02 22:07

Post edited by: eegf2001, at: 2008/01/03 19:12

First off: no non-Christian. Period. Introduce him to Christ, see if he is willing to surrender to Christ's amazing love. If he does, and gets saved, there's a whole new possible relationship for you. If he doesn't, he ain't worth your time. Second: it didn't work out between you and this boy, and now he says he misses you, but can't decide between you and someone else? Lame. You also didn't mention if you still had feelings for your ex, so I'm going on the assumption that you don't. Which means why are you even considering someone you don't like? Just because he says he's thinking about asking you out again? I'm sorry, but that's just pathetic. But, if you do still hold feelings for your ex, it still means he's trying to decide between you and someone else. And I just don't like the sound of that. So I say, tell both of them you're sorry, but you're not interested in a relationship right now. And as for the non-Christian, I already told you what to do about him.

I think that you should really think about who you like more... also you dont always have to have a boyfriend24/7. Your strongest relationship should be with God so if you cannot express your christian-like feelings with the boy who is not christian then you should not take a chance with him. Or you could try and guid him to God's light and spend the time with him dating as an influnece. Only you can decide (you could always pray about it:silly: )