Today at Lunch we walked around the football field and we were behind everyone and he smacked my butt. so I thought his hand might have accidently did that then he leaned over so I thought nothing of it then he got ontop of me and tried to take my shirt off and I screamed and my friends got me and we went to the bathroom and left him there. He is e-mailing me saying he wants to come over what should I do??

Post edited by: amberk1995, at: 2007/09/07 16:21

are you even dating him? what a freak.

That is getting scary. If a boy does that and then says he's going to come over no matter then you need to not let him in and talk to him through the door. If he tried taking advantage of you once he will again. And if you open the door there's a chance for him to push in and get on you again. If you do open the door when he comes and he tries comign in don't be afraid to slam it in his face! Oh yeah, and dump him.

I agree with everyone else. You could talk to him over the door...if he does try coming in, then don't be afraid to slam the door. Sometimes you have to do those things...even if it might seem rude. But sometimes, it is the right thing to do. I think it would be a good idea to tell your parents, too. Also, like everyone else has said...you should totally dump him. He's done something that you're uncomfortable with, and it's likely he might want to do it again. Just dump him and try staying away from him most of the time. I don't know if it might be hard for you to try and stay away from him, but just try your best.

Post edited by: Anko, at: 2007/09/08 10:14

Yes, after you dump him if you go the same school always make sure you're walking with a friend and not alone. And if you're alone and see him hide or start talking to someone else even if your not great friends and if he talks to you tell him to go away and get out of there as quick as possible.

[b]horses4ever23 wrote:[/b] [quote]Yes, after you dump him if you go the same school always make sure you're walking with a friend and not alone. And if you're alone and see him hide or start talking to someone else even if your not great friends and if he talks to you tell him to go away and get out of there as quick as possible.[/quote] Agreed.

..... I have something to say .... He came over .... And he raped me

Did you tell anyone? Like your parents? If you didn't, now would definitely be a good idea to tell them. And try and stay away from him as much as you can. Try to always be with someone. But you NEED to tell someone.

[b]amberk1995 wrote:[/b] [quote]..... I have something to say .... He came over .... And he raped me[/quote] Oh sweetie, I am so sorry!! You really need to tell your parents or a trusted adult about this. And you need to STAY AWAY from him. Always be with someone else.

OMGsh! Somehow I knew he was freaky and that something like this would happen. Firsts things first, are you okay? Did you pray to God afterward? MAke sure you tell a parent and never ever let him near you again, ask a friend to come with you everywhere until it calms down if you have to or call the police and sue him, they can also do something to make sure he never comes near you again. Not that I know all of the facts about all those lawstuff and everything.:( I hope your okay!