see i like this guy and he likes me and we used to date but then we broke up and like last night he got talked into by a pity party to be this other girls boyfriend and so now when i am around him ... i dont know it is weird i am not jealos i no that much but when we were together he was like telling me i was controlling and he was still obbessed with this other girl but now he is over her and so when we are to gether and fell unconfertable because before this we were friends for like 8 years and now when we are to gether and i am with him i am unconfortable but wen i am with him as just friends but i still like him even though i didnt like him when we were together wel i guess not as mucha as nowbut i dont like him when i am around him but i do like him when i am not around him i dont really know why so PLEASE HELP!!!!!![color=#008000][/color] [img size=350]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/104775.jpg[/img]the pic is him

Post edited by: ilikedavid, at: 2008/04/23 21:15

Ok all, I'm going to translate this into english. I'll just need a few minutes. Stand by for the results.

[b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Ok all, I'm going to translate this into english. I'll just need a few minutes. Stand by for the results.[/quote] THANK YOU! :side:

my ex is so cute but i like him and cant stand him at the same time sometimes

[b]ilikedavid wrote:[/b] [quote]see i like this guy and he likes me and we used to date but then we broke up and like last night he got talked into by a pity party to be this other girls boyfriend and so now when i am around him ... i dont know it is weird i am not jealos i no that much but when we were together he was like telling me i was controlling and he was still obbessed with this other girl but now he is over her and so when we are to gether and fell unconfertable because before this we were friends for like 8 years and now when we are to gether and i am with him i am unconfortable but wen i am with him as just friends but i still like him even though i didnt like him when we were together wel i guess not as mucha as nowbut i dont like him when i am around him but i do like him when i am not around him i dont really know why so PLEASE HELP!!!!!![/quote] Title: I need help with an issue dealing with the male species of human. "You see, I like this guy, and he likes me. We used to date, but we ended up breaking up. Last night, he was talked into a relationship with another girl who was throwing a pity-party for herself. Because of this, when I'm around him it becomes akward. However, I know that I'm not jealous of them. When we were together, he was told me that I was too controlling. He was still obsessed with another girl, but ended that phase. Now when we are together, we feel uncomfortable. We had been friends for eight years before our relationship. Now, it's just akward even as friends. I still have feelings for him, but more than what I had before when we were actually dating. It's easier to like him when he isn't around though. Why is this? Please help me!" It just gets harder and harder...

[b]ilikedavid wrote:[/b] [quote]my ex is so cute but i like him and cant stand him at the same time sometimes[/quote] The way that I see it (others may think differently) is that yeah, you may like him, but not in the way that you need for a relationship. Everyone's got that one little thing that will bite away at your nerves, some more so than others. I'm guessing you're both 13 or around there, so you still haven't hit full maturity yet (no offense to either of you) I'd lay off the relationships for a while until you can do the following: *find a guy that isnt looking at other girls *trust him enough to do the above so you become less "controlling" *trust your relationship fully in God so that any issue that comes up will send you to Him and only Him first. As for dealing with the guy for the current time, friendship is a good idea. Just remember you both have those things that bug you about eachother and try to accept those moments. It will be akward for a while since this happened recently, but keep walking on and it'll get easier. And more importantly, pray for both of you. Your purity and your friendship especially.