[b]So that guy i was telling you about earlier... [/b] Well, that girlfriend he dissappeared for broke up with him and he went back to friend mode with me, talking about how we're such good friends and he enjoys talking to me yadda yadda yadda. Well, about an hour and a half ago while we were talking as friends again, he got a new internet-girlfriend. He showed me a picture, told me her name, bragged a bit, then completely dissappeared. So i type back about 'should i leave you two alone for a long while... again?' He says all this junk about "No, no i can hold 2 conversations, don't worry. You're my friend yadda yadda..." What happened? I basically held a conversation with myself after that up until now. I then said "Well, it's just *poof* and he's gone folks! ...You know what? I give up. I'm done, goodnight." and suddenly he's talking again saying "oh yeah i fell asleep I'm sorry (more yadda)." excuses excuses... No one falls asleep that fast when they're happy and holding conversations with 2 people then suddenly wakes up to hear one specific *bling* that says "im leaving" out of the rest of the *blings* i'd been sending before that. grrr... :angry: [b]Summery of the above:[/b]I fell for his "ima friend!" game again. I messed up. Someone swat me with a newspaper or something before i fall on my face again. How do i fix this problem i have with being so quick to forget after forgiving? *sigh*...I need some hot chocolate and a bowl of popcorn. :( maybe some lemonade since it's summer... who knows.

chica I say you forget about him!

Just stop talking to him.

You should probably forget about him, cause it sounds like you like him a lil more then just a friend. Forget those feelings, but be his friend, but only if he's trying.

[b]Michyarob wrote:[/b] [quote]You should probably forget about him, cause it sounds like you like him a lil more then just a friend. Forget those feelings, but be his friend, but only if he's trying.[/quote] Woah hon, not at all! I'm happily taken by another (you've heard me talk about the marvelous Tim, i know you have). I'm just very attatched to my friends and protective of them, all of them, and it hurts when they act as though i don't matter. Just like the girls on here that rant when another girl snubs them out. I don't have a lot of girl friends, (In fact, you all are really the only girls that i talk to on a regular basis.) so close friends for me are guys. So just try to compare it as having a friend of yours drop all contact so she can go flirt with some guy. How would that make you feel? What would you do? Would you just stop talking to her all together or what? It's hard to do when they're really a friend.

im not sure i may b wrong but this guy seems like the kind of guy that hes to caught up in "love" hes with one girl...then a few mins ltr they r broken up and hes with another...if he is like that i say u shouldnt want to be his girlfriend cause if u guys break up hell b with another girl and u will be even more sad....and plus even as a friend im sure he will just be bragging and bragging about the new girl hes with...and ur gonna sit there listening wishing u were somewhere else...if it were me i would try and get himn to pay attention to me for a few minutes and tell him that u would like to be his friend but u dont know if u can keep listening to him going on and on about othere ppl and that u dont like how he says he is gonna tlk to u and then he goes and tlks to someone else and ignores u or something...thats what i would do...im not sure if that helped because im not sure if thats what the guy is like or not so hopefullyh it helped a bit

[b]ANGEL-FROG95 wrote:[/b] [quote]im not sure i may b wrong but this guy seems like the kind of guy that hes to caught up in "love" hes with one girl...then a few mins ltr they r broken up and hes with another...if he is like that i say u shouldnt want to be his girlfriend cause if u guys break up hell b with another girl and u will be even more sad....and plus even as a friend im sure he will just be bragging and bragging about the new girl hes with...and ur gonna sit there listening wishing u were somewhere else...if it were me i would try and get himn to pay attention to me for a few minutes and tell him that u would like to be his friend but u dont know if u can keep listening to him going on and on about othere ppl and that u dont like how he says he is gonna tlk to u and then he goes and tlks to someone else and ignores u or something...thats what i would do...im not sure if that helped because im not sure if thats what the guy is like or not so hopefullyh it helped a bit[/quote] For the record, i dont want to be his girlfriend. Read the post above yours for more depth on that. And I'd rather him brag than say nothing at all. We'll be talking, she get's online, and he's just gone. No more IM's from his side.

o ok