OK WELL SEE IV BEEN GOIN OUT WITHTHIS GUY 4 LIKE 3 MONTHS AND WELL HE HASNT EVEN HELS MY HAND YET AND WELL IV GIVEN HIM SIGHNS AND EVERYTHING AND WELL MY FRIENDS KEPP TELLING ME THAT I SHOULD JUST MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND GRAVE HIS HAND SO WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????? HELP PLEASE

I know you're annoyed, but it is better to let him make the first move. This sounds strange, but with guys, almost anything can remind them of sex, so maybe he is trying to be cautious. Plus, the less you give him physically and emotionaly, not only will things hurt less when you break up, but he'll keep wanting more in the meantime.

you should probably wait till he makes the move, taking it slow is a good idea cause if you pour a lot of emotion into a relationship at an early stage it will be terrible if he breaks up with you. And yes 3 to 4 months of dating is a bit early wait till 5 or 6.

okay, i am not going to say that you are too young to date, but you still have a lot to learn. i know that i am probably on;y about three years older tha you, but you will do a lot of maturing in the next few years, so you need to learn how to handle thibgs. what you should do is just play with his hand a little. you know like barely touch his hand or play with his fingers, but be gentle and flirty. he may be afraid that you don't want him to touch you, and if, and only if , you are comfortable with it, show him it's okay. just know that once you do hold hands, the next thing could be his arm around your waist. i know this soumds silly, but you have to be comfortable with him. and make sure to know you're own personal boundaries.

[b]basketball4ev wrote:[/b] [quote]OK WELL SEE IV BEEN GOIN OUT WITHTHIS GUY 4 LIKE 3 MONTHS AND WELL HE HASNT EVEN HELS MY HAND YET AND WELL IV GIVEN HIM SIGHNS AND EVERYTHING AND WELL MY FRIENDS KEPP TELLING ME THAT I SHOULD JUST MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND GRAVE HIS HAND SO WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????? HELP PLEASE[/quote] I have been going out with some one for 8 months and we just now really held hands for the first time. the other time it was like after we had gone out for 2 days

I just want to say that hand-holding spreads germs. Avoid it as much as possible. Wash your hands afterwards. Haha, sorry. I need to stop talking to my bff's mom who is a nurse. Arg.

omg i know just how u feel i have the same problem :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh: :dry: :dry: :dry: :S :S :S :pinch: :pinch: :pinch: :pinch: