This is what happened: My bff -:) (smily, cus i don't want anyone to know her name) just got a boyfriend-:evil: And they really loved each other, well :) dumped him, becasue he had lied to her about another girl, but sonce she still loved him:) gave:evil: another chance, she said " I am gonna let it rest for a week, then it will be official again, well during this week, :) went to my other best friends house -:kiss: , and they told each other all there secrets and everything.( :) and her boyfriend :evil: weren't supposed to let anyone know about them dating, for some reason)-well,:) said:kiss: was saying alot about this boy she really liked, but didn't tell :) who it was, well I called :kiss: that night while :) was spending the night at her house. and she told me about the boy she was dating (i knew about :) and:evil: dating, so its okay) but she said "don't tell :) , i am dating :evil: " I started screaming at her and said " what the heck!!! that is her boyfriend, wat kinda friend are you!!!!!!!!," and i said i was gonna tell her, finnaly :) took the phone from :kiss: and asked and i told her because her boyfriend was cheating on her, she started bawling! (:kiss: was in another room) finnaly when she stopped, :kiss: came back in and she gave her the phone. :kiss: asked" did you tell her?" and i said, i am gonna! i said " you are not being a good friend!" nd she said " i don't care i really like this boy" so then :) walked in and said I know about who you are dating!!! and then :kiss: started crying and said" i trusted you Rachael, but now i can't !! your a horrible friend. :evil: is causing a lot of trouble, and now 2 of my best friends are against each other, and one against me. was it wrong of me to tell my bff that her boyfriend was cheating on her with her best friend? I feel like such a jerk, i hope you all understood that, i need comort right now, and the bad part is... i am going to camp with them both in 2 weeks. I am gonna hate this.Please help.

i think you did the right thing because if she's your best friend she has a right to know and if one friend has the nerve to date another friends guy then they aren't much of a friend at all. i think you should probably sit down and talk to both of them together and work it out face to face because trust me i know what it's like to go to camp fighting with your best friend. so i suggest you try and work it out before you have to go to camp. i'll be praying for you God Bless

I think you did the right thing. You were being a good friend. :kiss: wasn't being a good friend. You guys do need to talk about this though. If you don't, it will just keep building up and then explode, I've had that happen to me and it is NO FUN!! I'm praying for you. God Bless ~Arianna

You are not a jerk!!! i think you did the right thing. Telling your friend the truth is important, even if it goes against your other friend. What your other friend did was wrong, so imo, its okay. I agree with Building429, you should definitely talk this out before camp if possible. It isnt fun when you have friends angry at you at camp...lots of other problems usually arise...if you can, perhaps bring an adult with you to talk about it...one that wont take sides, but will help keep you guys on track, keep everyone under control, and give suggestions and such. idk, but thats what i have done when my friends get in arguments and such...it usually works pretty well...hope you get this all straightened out... God Bless! Jaryd

Post edited by: Cheecha, at: 2007/07/03 13:49

u really did do the rite thing

You did the right thing, Cheecha. Even if it might bring a little trouble now, it would've been more trouble later if you didn't say anything. There would just be broken hearts in the end. And eventually, they will get over it...even though cheating (you know what I mean) is a bad thing, time will go by and they will move on from it.

i totally think you did the right thing!!!! so dont think of yourself as a jerk and maybe even ask for her forgivness (you never know she might forgive you!) you stopped it early thats a good thing cause im sure if you didnt then it wouldve gotten MUCH worse!!! and you probably would lose:) as a friend too!! im sure :) is happy you told her cause when my bf cheated on me with my bff's friend she told me and i dumped the guy even though i like him soo much im sure more then any guy i ever like...anyways everybody worked things out and its all cool now and me and the girl he cheated on me with are like bff's! but trust me you did the right thing he wouldve messed everything up for you and :) and:kiss: but just ask for her forgiveness it might work

[b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]This is what happened: My bff -:) (smily, cus i don't want anyone to know her name) just got a boyfriend-:evil: And they really loved each other, well :) dumped him, becasue he had lied to her about another girl, but sonce she still loved him:) gave:evil: another chance, she said " I am gonna let it rest for a week, then it will be official again, well during this week, :) went to my other best friends house -:kiss: , and they told each other all there secrets and everything.( :) and her boyfriend :evil: weren't supposed to let anyone know about them dating, for some reason)-well,:) said:kiss: was saying alot about this boy she really liked, but didn't tell :) who it was, well I called :kiss: that night while :) was spending the night at her house. and she told me about the boy she was dating (i knew about :) and:evil: dating, so its okay) but she said "don't tell :) , i am dating :evil: " I started screaming at her and said " what the heck!!! that is her boyfriend, wat kinda friend are you!!!!!!!!," and i said i was gonna tell her, finnaly :) took the phone from :kiss: and asked and i told her because her boyfriend was cheating on her, she started bawling! (:kiss: was in another room) finnaly when she stopped, :kiss: came back in and she gave her the phone. :kiss: asked" did you tell her?" and i said, i am gonna! i said " you are not being a good friend!" nd she said " i don't care i really like this boy" so then :) walked in and said I know about who you are dating!!! and then :kiss: started crying and said" i trusted you Rachael, but now i can't !! your a horrible friend. :evil: is causing a lot of trouble, and now 2 of my best friends are against each other, and one against me. was it wrong of me to tell my bff that her boyfriend was cheating on her with her best friend? I feel like such a jerk, i hope you all understood that, i need comort right now, and the bad part is... i am going to camp with them both in 2 weeks. I am gonna hate this.Please help.[/quote] you did the right thing if my bff went out with my bf my other bffs would tell me so i could move on with my life. that was totally the right thing to do. B) B) B) :) :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :) he makes me want to :sick: bc of that

[b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]This is what happened: My bff -:) (smily, cus i don't want anyone to know her name) just got a boyfriend-:evil: And they really loved each other, well :) dumped him, becasue he had lied to her about another girl, but sonce she still loved him:) gave:evil: another chance, she said " I am gonna let it rest for a week, then it will be official again, well during this week, :) went to my other best friends house -:kiss: , and they told each other all there secrets and everything.( :) and her boyfriend :evil: weren't supposed to let anyone know about them dating, for some reason)-well,:) said:kiss: was saying alot about this boy she really liked, but didn't tell :) who it was, well I called :kiss: that night while :) was spending the night at her house. and she told me about the boy she was dating (i knew about :) and:evil: dating, so its okay) but she said "don't tell :) , i am dating :evil: " I started screaming at her and said " what the heck!!! that is her boyfriend, wat kinda friend are you!!!!!!!!," and i said i was gonna tell her, finnaly :) took the phone from :kiss: and asked and i told her because her boyfriend was cheating on her, she started bawling! (:kiss: was in another room) finnaly when she stopped, :kiss: came back in and she gave her the phone. :kiss: asked" did you tell her?" and i said, i am gonna! i said " you are not being a good friend!" nd she said " i don't care i really like this boy" so then :) walked in and said I know about who you are dating!!! and then :kiss: started crying and said" i trusted you Rachael, but now i can't !! your a horrible friend. :evil: is causing a lot of trouble, and now 2 of my best friends are against each other, and one against me. was it wrong of me to tell my bff that her boyfriend was cheating on her with her best friend? I feel like such a jerk, i hope you all understood that, i need comort right now, and the bad part is... i am going to camp with them both in 2 weeks. I am gonna hate this.Please help.[/quote] i think you did the right thing and the one who is being the jerk is :kiss: .